If someone offered you $1,000,000 in cash, tax free. Would you take it? But.. you had to leave the love of your life & never see or talk to them again. Would You?
2007-07-07 08:48:00 · 25 answers · asked by the_kikione 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would not. I would be so lost and loney without him. He is my best friend. Money can't buy happiness. We definitely don't have alot of money, but we are happy and content with each other.
2007-07-07 09:22:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry for your pain. Making the decision to break things off with the love of your life must be so difficult. I can't tell you if it is the right decision, but I can tell you what I know from personal experience. The way that a person is for the 11 years you dated is the way that he will be when you are married and have children. He is still lying to you about the drugs and debt; what tells you that things will be anything different next year after you get married? One thing will be different: the debt will be yours and you will not be able to get away from his drug problems as easily. You love him very much and in order to let him know how much you care, tell him to go into rehab. Many people say that marijuana is not a dangerous drug and maybe it isn't for some, but your fiance is showing classic signs of addiction and needs help. Tell him that you are there for him and you care about him, but you need to distance yourself from such a toxic situation. I know it will hurt, but think of ten years from now when you are married with kids and he is acting this way; your love will turn into resentment and hatred.
2016-05-20 23:25:54 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was offered a life of luxury. Instead, I married the love of my life and now am doing well. Money isn't everything. Plus if you were to marry someone for money, it would be prostitution. You would have sold yourself for money. Period. So many still haven't realized that you just can't buy love.
2007-07-07 10:56:31 · answer #3 · answered by califdreamer_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I wouldn't. There's always a way to make money, but true love is very rare. I wouldn't leave for all the money in the world.
2007-07-07 09:29:19 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I couldn't. But I had this discussion with my brother once and he said he'd leave his wife for it in a heartbeat, then give her some of the money. I think I'd be rich and miserable.
2007-07-07 08:52:56 · answer #5 · answered by rain4him *Stranger In Most Towns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. No amount of money, nor anything else - 18 years married, and can't wait for the next 18 PLUS!!!
2007-07-07 11:12:59 · answer #6 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES*... There are many other people to love in this World besides just one person*.... However I would share half of the million with her and explain that we both can still contribute to another persons happiness, by loving another person*.... Its not about $$$$$$$, but about LOVE*........
2007-07-07 09:33:10 · answer #7 · answered by dca2003311@yahoo.com 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! I don't know if I'd do it even if I could see and talk to her again. But it's not a problem because she already dumped me, tore out my heart and ripped it to peaces.
2007-07-07 08:54:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not a shallow person but yup i would take the money and run. the love off my life might turn around in the future and say she does not love me anymore. anyone who picks love is a dumbass. certainty wins over uncertainty anyday
2007-07-07 09:07:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If things were going bad between us and there was not chance of us getting back together. Then yes.
2007-07-07 08:53:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋