My husband works with this girl and they are really friendly with each other. No problem there. Here's where it gets weird... I will be working for the same company, during a different shift than my husband but this girl will be my supervisor. It wouldn't seem so troubling if she hadn't told me, during my interview with her, that he and she are "right there" with each other. She went on to say that he's just so easy to talk to and started going on about him. We just moved here from out of state and we really need the money that would come with me working for this company. How can I bring this all up to my husband without seeming like the jealous-over-bearing wife? He tends to be clueless when it comes to when a women is hitting on him. He doesn't understand that his personality is what is so attractive about him. So whenever I have brought it up, in the past, he just says it's all in my head. What can I say? Any SENSIBLE suggestions?
2007-07-07 08:42:50 · 4 answers · asked by ionwheels03 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I KNOW he isn't going to cheat. It's just that he doesn't get it when a woman likes him and so he keeps acting like he does. He's a very friendly guy and to someone that has "more than friends" feelings for him, it can seem like he is flirting back. It can be a bad situation. I just want to make him aware and ask him to watch his relationship with her so that it doesn't go that way. He doesn't have to stop talking to her, unless she takes it too far (then it'll be in my court).
2007-07-07 08:52:24 · update #1
This is not a trust issue. It's a matter of preventing a situation that has already shown strong possibility. I trust my husband. I don't trust her yet. There is the real problem in the equasion. Her thoughts and feelings could create an uncomfortable environment for us, she's revealed herself to me, he will not see it. He's dense in that department.
2007-07-07 11:37:32 · update #2
You have nothing to worry about. My wife tells me that I'm that way. I'm not a complete idiot, and I'm sure that he isn't either. If she does something that crosses the line, I know that he'll put a stop to it. Men CAN have women friends, and keep it that way. There's a woman at work that I've gotten close to over the past couple of months, but my wife can rest assured that nothing will happen. We just see each other all the time, and it makes her nervous. So, even if she has feelings for him that are more than just friendship, I'm sure that his feelings are with you, and you have nothing to worry about.
2007-07-09 12:56:26 · answer #1 · answered by Daddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its his responsibility and problem to deal with not yours*... You are creating a what if situation here*.. Don't say a word to him about it until you have grounds to do so*....
2007-07-07 09:39:00 · answer #2 · answered by dca2003311@yahoo.com 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
SOOO, your saying your husband is an idiot and when she asks him to come over to her house, go into her bedroom and take his clothes off and get in bed, he will do it because he doesn't KNOW better?This IS what you are saying isn' it?He won't cheat unless he wants to.
2007-07-07 08:46:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
if you trust your husband, this shouldn't matter.
even if she hits on him, it doesn't mean he's going to do anything about it.
2007-07-07 08:52:43 · answer #4 · answered by Truth Hurts Get Over It 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋