Family & Relationships - 7 July 2007

I've been dating this girl for 7mos and likes to go to single events when I am not in town and gets hit on alot, likes to look at other guys when I'm with her. I took her to a party where some guy she never met, asked if she could kiss him on the cheek which she agreed to and then told me about it later saying she dosen't know why she did. All of her friends say I'm jealous and all of this is no big deal. I have shown the utmost repect with or without her to keep the dream alive but am i just standing still? Tonto

2007-07-07 11:21:35 · 5 answers · asked by tonto 1 in Singles & Dating

okay dont say im too young to date okay? save it for someone who cares.

im going to be a freshman in highschool and i've dated before, but only guys my age. recently i met this guy who is absolutely perfect for me. hes cute, funny, smart and has the same interests as me. and i think he likes me too. the thing is, my dad is mad that i like him because hes a year older. hes going to be a sophmore. i really dont think its that big of a deal because hes a really good guy not one of those guys who are always trying to get into your pants. we get along really well and we flirt. and i know hes not one of those guys because we've hung out before and like we flirt and thats all, because he knows i take things slow. i really like him....do you think my dad is right by saying i shouldnt date someone older? dont you think hes being a little out of line because the guy hasnt even asked me out yet or told me he liked me....what do you think? is my dad right?

2007-07-07 11:20:58 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm married to the meanest man ever. He gets home late from work almost daily and says he was "working". When he gets upset with me, he will basically live in the basement for weeks at a time and if he speaks to me it's in a full rage. He is gone from morning until late at night knowing I will be here when he gets home. I'm SICK of it. He has pushed me so far into the ground that my self esteem is lacking. Should I go out and have fun too? Come home and tell him "I worked late" just like he does? I'm sad, lonely and need a night out. Advice appreciated.

2007-07-07 11:14:48 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Last summer 1 saturday hubby and his best friend fishing..Couple days later i was talking to his buddy and he told me hubby and him went out to breakfast before they went fishing well i didnt know this..His buddy told me that hubby told him NOT to tell me about going out to breakfast..When hubby came home that night i ask him about this and he said he never said that..When his best friend told me this he said he didnt wanna keep any secrets from me...I dont care about them going out to breakfast but i would care if hubby did tell his buddy not to tell me..Hubby has lied and kept stuff from me in the past however it was hard to tell who was telling the truth and who was lying...His buddy would have had no reason to lie about this...So who would you have believed?

2007-07-07 11:14:26 · 9 answers · asked by nicole m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend is always tolding me that he love's me and everything but he never call me to check at me and he never buy for me something. I act that i am mad but i will do like nothing happen because i really love him

2007-07-07 11:13:36 · 9 answers · asked by shardey 1 in Singles & Dating

find a master to take care of me but if my friends and family find out they'll try to stop me. how can i prove to them that this is what i want and i'm not just settling?

2007-07-07 11:13:36 · 19 answers · asked by yo 2 in Singles & Dating

i love my mom to death but she aint really giving me the space i need she still thinks ima kid im 15 and i dont want to spend that much time with her as i used to but no matter what ima always have time for her but she s afriad ima go out and get pragnet like my aunts did wen they was 15 but im not like that my momz always gonna be my best friend she still is we still spend time with each other but sometimes i want to be alone and i tell that but then she thinks somethings wrong when theres not but i tell her i like to be alone sometimes to think and write poems and songs but shes always trying to be under me to protect me from the world for once i wish i could make my own desitions for once what can i do? tell her to leave me alone but i dont want to be mean about but sometimes i need space.... I NEED HELP

2007-07-07 11:07:30 · 6 answers · asked by BABY B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

But he has a LIST of conditions for me to go back to him. The first one is that he would know if God really wants me to go back to him if his boy accepts that. OK, the boy does accept me but there are still a LOT for me to fit in because they now have to be cautious, as if I had done bad things. All that I wanted was for him and the boy to accept me and to be wanted and loved there. I belong to another culture and it was so very hard for me being with a man who always puts his boy first. I know a child always has priorities, but there is no balance in his relationship with him and with me. I wrote the boy two letters but I wonder if the father gave to the him. I try to be nice, I did love his son when I was there, I did whatever I could.....but it seems it is never enough. I don't htink it is right to let a 10 year old boy run the show...........this is not how things work in my country.

2007-07-07 11:04:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my girlfriend cheated me whit my friend and now she says she is sorry. sould ı trust her?? in past ı know she loves me too. ı want to trust her i couldnt sleep cause of thinking her. what sould i do??

2007-07-07 11:00:37 · 21 answers · asked by hedar 1 in Singles & Dating

do you have any tips on making friends? I'm pretty shy and therefore lonely. I would like to talk to people but I'm to shy to start the conversation. What, if anything, can I do to bring people to me without making a fool of myself?

2007-07-07 10:55:59 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-07-07 10:51:05 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what do you find attractinve in a girl?

2007-07-07 10:50:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-07 10:46:15 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What does anyone suggest as far as responsibilities, contributions to household expenses, privileges, etc?

How do you set boundaries without treating them like children?
Yet have them be independent although they are living with parents?

2007-07-07 10:43:44 · 12 answers · asked by KayKay 2 in Family

ok i liked this guy and it turnd out he liked me too,but this other girl asked him out and he aint the type to break up with a girl so he stayed with her.He told me he cares about me alot and was waiting for her to break up with him,And alot of other stuff happend that I cant say cause Ill start cryin.
It all ended up that I was hurt and she was laughin in my face and he still wanted to be with me,....I was hurt by him and mad so I wanted to stop thinking of him and move on,so later on this other guy askes me out and I say yea.Well I like him alot too but I still think of the other guy...and I jus saw him and talked to him and I bout cried..I love him so much what do I do? Do I get rid of the other guy(eric one who asked me out) that asked me out and contue to love Allen(the one I love)?Or stay with Eric and try to get over Allen?

2007-07-07 10:42:32 · 18 answers · asked by Ashley 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of 5 years and I are getting married. Everything was all great we have the date picked out and everything Now comes time to start paying for things for the wedding. and thats where the problems come in

we have had arguments in the past about the wedding and he believes my parents should be paying, as it is tradition, but being chinese and in chinese tradition the guy's side pays, my parents already told me they aren't paying, they'll give me some money to help out but the rest is on my and my groom. I don't make that much money (being a school psychologist) and he makes twice as much as me. I suggested we split costs, I'll pay half he'll pay half. He agreed, after a while. But now his parents are up in a roar over it, saying that I should pay for the wedding since it's "tradition." I really don't think that's being fair. I have a feeling they don't like me they keep telling him that I'm ruining tradition.he's white Im chinese different traditions! I don't know what to do.

2007-07-07 10:33:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Hi, I'm 13. NO I am not getting married! My friend who is 20 is engaged and I want to know what would make a good present. Preferably something 20 bucks or less. Honestly I have no idea what a wedding gift might be. Thanks for the help everyone!

2007-07-07 10:30:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-07-07 10:26:56 · 36 answers · asked by michael w 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Both of our names are on the title. I currently have a lawyer.
my lawyer is gonna partition him to sell the house. I think he will
destroy it once he finds out what im doing. If he destroys it, can I file any civil action against him or have him arrested?

2007-07-07 10:25:06 · 5 answers · asked by mimi 2007 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

except davids bridal and except the knot thanks

2007-07-07 10:24:39 · 3 answers · asked by dvcgurl 7 in Weddings

We fought because he did not want to have a conversation w/me. He thought what I wanted to converse about was a small and worthless thing, that as smart as I am, I should have figured it out and gotten over it myself. I dont agree. I believe that if I was upset he should have been willing to humor me. Make me feel better if he could. Where I went wrong was that after he shut down as in refusing to speak. I was aggressive with him, I swore at him. I did all of this to get a response. When I could have waited another day, or a time when we both cooled off. I know him so I knew it would work, but I did it for 3hours. I refused to let up. I feel liek I always let up for him, so whynot for me? It was a war of the wills. He has a bad temper that he keeps in check, but I made it flare. He put his hands on my neck. He let go immediately, but it scared us both. Hes apologized. I have to, I pushed him to the edge. And purposefully. I dint think it go that far tho...

2007-07-07 10:21:15 · 9 answers · asked by Tian 3 in Singles & Dating

Last night I made the comment that I wanted to go and that I could sit in the middle of him and the baby in his truck. He said that he was planning on stopping by his mom's to pick up some stuff so that wouldn't work because he would have to put things in the inside of the truck as well as fill up the bed(meaning I can't go) It is 5pm now and he left @ 1 (45min drive) anyone have a new opinion on if I should be worried about my bf going to a birthday party for his god daughter hosted by her mom(his ex-fiance) without taking me... pretty much insisting I can't go... and taking my 2 yr old son with him..... my gut is against me and I can't help but think something is going on... any opinions??

2007-07-07 10:17:23 · 9 answers · asked by angelbabies98517 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what would be the reactions? not nude posing but provactative is ok

2007-07-07 10:17:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK, just say your boyfriend works a late swing shift (6pm to 4 pm) he gets off a couple hours early one morning, he gets a voice mail message at 3 in the morning, what is your first gut reaction?

2007-07-07 10:16:47 · 25 answers · asked by mslorikaraoke 3 in Singles & Dating

I have had a fairly ok life so far. I have a good job, I'm financially secure, my parents are alive, I'm educated. I'm 36.

I am going to marry a man that lives 2000 miles from me (we have been together a long time - it's not some long distance crazy thing that doesn't have a future). I am moving to be with him and I am very uncomfortable about that because I have to leave my family, friends and job. I do love him. I wonder if that is enough. I also wonder how I can possibly be happy there an ocean away when I cannot be happy here with all that I have. I am constantly sad and worried. I'm 36, have never been married and have no children. I still think I'm not old enough to have children and I'm now old enough to be a grandmother! What is wrong with me? Should I just go get married and fake it?

Is there anyone else out there that is just sad all the time? Nothing can make me happy. I'm constantly waiting for something bad to happen.

2007-07-07 10:16:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

turning everything around on me for but when its the worst person in the family who broke up the family they sugar coat it on everything they do is like its nothing. i dont want to make this a long question because its alot to say. for example okay i stop talking to my cosins becauase there pure evil and heartless ok and my other aunt says to be will didnt i punish them enough by not being there again turned around on me i wish i can write more sample but u get the idea

2007-07-07 10:16:15 · 1 answers · asked by dvcgurl 7 in Family

he doesn't even touch me or do anything physical or emotional things to me. hell what i'm i to do.

2007-07-07 10:14:28 · 25 answers · asked by lovelyc 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How would you react if your husband told you he was broke until pay day then you find out he some money on him..Would you be mad or would it be no big deal since it was only under 50 dollars.

2007-07-07 10:14:19 · 9 answers · asked by nicole m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well I noticed that most of the time when someone gets married the guys best friend is the best man.....Well uh my best friend is a girl so would it be odd to have her as the best man? lol

2007-07-07 10:12:42 · 12 answers · asked by dudewheresmycar86 2 in Weddings

Im 26 my hubby is 44, just got married 2 years ago but I felt I want a divorce I am not sure. Here are the things about him why I want a divorce...... he spends most of his time infront of his computer playing computer games almost all day on his day off, he doesnt going on shopping like what I want to do, he doesnt want to have a picnic in he backyard since he hates the bugs...just want to stay inside and play his game in the pc, he doesnt know how to please me like kissing, hugging ....and when i kiss him he always wipe his lips he says he hates saliva, i always the one who ask for sex he neve starts a spark ...sex in a month.....is that normal for married life? I am getting tired doing the spark between us all the time, he always says no to sex because he is tired and he always go to bed late at night spending his hours in his pc, I dont know what to do, i felt like we have our own worlds

2007-07-07 10:11:49 · 19 answers · asked by sleepyhead 1 in Marriage & Divorce