Last night I made the comment that I wanted to go and that I could sit in the middle of him and the baby in his truck. He said that he was planning on stopping by his mom's to pick up some stuff so that wouldn't work because he would have to put things in the inside of the truck as well as fill up the bed(meaning I can't go) It is 5pm now and he left @ 1 (45min drive) anyone have a new opinion on if I should be worried about my bf going to a birthday party for his god daughter hosted by her mom(his ex-fiance) without taking me... pretty much insisting I can't go... and taking my 2 yr old son with him..... my gut is against me and I can't help but think something is going on... any opinions??
2007-07-07 10:17:23 · 9 answers · asked by angelbabies98517 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have already met the girl several times... he invited her to the 2 yr old's party in may.... she came and there was no drama except he acted different towards me while she was there...
2007-07-07 11:09:58 · update #1
yeah that's not cool at all, i mean really, look at it objectively, that's bull **** behaviour, he's definately not respecting you at all, whether he's cheating or not, you're not being treated the way you deserve.
2007-07-07 10:22:52 · answer #1 · answered by chaispicetea 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't worry about it ....it probably would have caused him alot of tension with the ex being at the party. She may be a real witch who would make his life hell or embarrass him in front of you. He took your son along so ....I wouldn't think he is planning on lying about your relationship but may have wanted you to not be placed in a bad situation and yet he wanted to be there for his goddaughter.
2007-07-07 17:22:49 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
somebody is getting some nookie and now you gotta quiz a 2 yr old to find out who is banging you beau. in all seriousness, sometimes it is uncomfortable to be around an ex and the new stuff. but I would think he would try to live with the discomfort as opposed to hurting your feelings. unless your feelings aren't that important, they seem to be less important than old stuffs feelings, you could have offered to ride in the back of the truck just to watch him squirm and do that little sidestep.
2007-07-07 17:24:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm a little unclear: is your son his son, too? In any case, if he tried his best to exclude you there's probably a reason for it...as to what you should do about it, there's not much you can do, is there? I'm sorry, and I wish you all the best.
2007-07-07 17:24:03 · answer #4 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to trust him. If you cant trust him then you need to figure out why. Do you have proof of anything? Does his history make you think you cant trust him? What is your history like? If you have a GOOD reason why you cant trust him, then you need to ask yourself why you are in this relationship.
2007-07-07 17:27:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion is that you should listen to your gut. And don't have children with men who don't respect you enough to commit his life to you alone.
2007-07-07 17:21:47 · answer #6 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like hes playin you for a fool, and youre letting him
2007-07-07 17:25:55 · answer #7 · answered by *never give up* 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
follow your gut. your man shouldn't' be hiding you away, but proud to sport you no matter where he goes.
2007-07-07 17:22:27 · answer #8 · answered by almondsarenuts 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
something is up!
2007-07-07 17:22:31 · answer #9 · answered by melody 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋