my girlfriend cheated me whit my friend and now she says she is sorry. sould ı trust her?? in past ı know she loves me too. ı want to trust her i couldnt sleep cause of thinking her. what sould i do??
2007-07-07 11:00:37 · 21 answers · asked by hedar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's probably the worst feeling in the world, all i can say to you is to keep your head up. It's your choice wheather the forgive her or not, but if I was in your spot I would definitely act like i was really upset..don't really tell her that you love her that is if you guys say those words to each other. Tell her it is going to take a long time for you to gain her trust back. Im sure she will feel very upset and wondering why you haven't really acknoledged her. She'll feel bad and then maybe she will be very truthful to you after that. I hope it all works out for you bro!
2007-07-07 11:05:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as though you have answered your own question by referring to your girlfriend as your ex-girlfriend.
It takes a very long time for trust to rebuild and for the wound to heal from this kind of infidelity. You cannot just choose to trust now; trust will have to build slowly over time by demonstrating a change in behavior.
She may love you, but cheating on a partner is not a good example of it.
If in your heart, you know she is now an ex-girlfriend, I wouldn't torture yourself too long wondering if you can trust her. Staying with her will mean trying to build a relationship with a person you do not trust.
Why not just find someone new to try a fresh relationship with, uncontaminated by infidelity and cheating? There are many people in this world you can love. Why invest in this one?
2007-07-07 18:07:50 · answer #2 · answered by boiseboy50 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she luvs u she wudn't hav cheated on u!!!!!!!!! But if u still wanna work things out then sit her down and talk 2 her about it and see what she says. If ur past the angry part that is. If not don't do it quite yet cuz ul make it worse. Talk to ur friend 2 tell them both how u feel about the situation adn go from there
2007-07-07 18:05:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to say this, but once a cheat, always a cheat.
Or I can be wrong 'cause I don't know your ex...maybe she truly is sorry.
Give it time - after some time, your heart will tell you to either try again, or move on.
If it were me, I'd dump both my ex-girlfriend and my so called friend (what kinda friend sleeps with his friends gf?? not a good friend at all)..
2007-07-07 18:05:50 · answer #4 · answered by thesoapgoatsoapshop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is hard here, she said she is sorry. The pressure is on you now!
We all get hurt and move on this ones on you. Time is the best medicine, ask yourself can I see myself loving her and only her in the future. Would she be there for me always. Same for her. I like the saying friends come and go.
Trust, Love, Understanding, Time.
Good Luck Romantic
2007-07-07 18:11:58 · answer #5 · answered by romantic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!! she cheated once, she will cheat again..... getting a new girlfriend is a GREAT way of getting her off your mind, just know that the next girlfriend will be a transition girlfriend and dont get too attached. You need someone to keep your mind off of her - good luck to ya!
2007-07-07 18:04:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that there's much left there to trust do you? And what about your friend that she did it with, are you going to forgive him also? Wouldn't it feel weird knowing that they now know each other a whole lot better? Try thinking about that when you wonder if you should trust her.
2007-07-07 18:05:44 · answer #7 · answered by Ducky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its all on your belief. If you think she's the type that wont do a mistake again then maybe you can give her a second chance. But if she is not trustworthy enough then you dont wanna get heartbroken again.
so just do what you think is right.
2007-07-07 18:04:39 · answer #8 · answered by honeyy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater, always a cheater. The first time my ex cheated on me I forgave him..and then he did it 3 more times. Is this girl really worth it?
2007-07-07 18:05:12 · answer #9 · answered by ♠ Makela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the way I get over someone is by first thinking about how much they hurt me and then deciding I don't want that anymore and going and finding someone new, even just hanging out with friends or doing fun new things will help you get over it.
2007-07-07 18:04:11 · answer #10 · answered by ♡♪♫☆Baby Animal♥♡♪♫☆ღ»-(¯`v´¯)-» 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋