how can i get my family to stop?

Question

turning everything around on me for but when its the worst person in the family who broke up the family they sugar coat it on everything they do is like its nothing. i dont want to make this a long question because its alot to say. for example okay i stop talking to my cosins becauase there pure evil and heartless ok and my other aunt says to be will didnt i punish them enough by not being there again turned around on me i wish i can write more sample but u get the idea

Answer 1

My husband is going through this. Toxic Parents is a good book to read (even if it isn't your parents that are the problem). Set clear boundaries and call them on their behaviour. Do what you need to, to make your life work.