Should I stay or should I go?

Question

I've been dating this girl for 7mos and likes to go to single events when I am not in town and gets hit on alot, likes to look at other guys when I'm with her. I took her to a party where some guy she never met, asked if she could kiss him on the cheek which she agreed to and then told me about it later saying she dosen't know why she did. All of her friends say I'm jealous and all of this is no big deal. I have shown the utmost repect with or without her to keep the dream alive but am i just standing still? Tonto

Answer 1

Depends how much you like her..... if you really seriously like her, tell her that you do, but her doing this stuff bugs the hell out of you, and if it continues, you ain't sure if you can continue seeing each other.

If you don't like her quite that much, wait 'til next time she does it, and if it's a pretty bad one just tell her "Right, that does it... I've had enough of this... f*** it!", and walk off, find someone else.

If you don't really have any feelings for her at all, just tell her things aren't working out 'cos of what she's been doing.

Answer 2

Tonto,

I think you should go. I dont think she is the one for you. It doesnt matter what your friends say, they are not the ones who live in your emotions. Listen to yourself - you are not happy with her! A girlfriend usually makes you feel happy and good about yourself! So move on! You will find your dream!

Answer 3

Dump her. She's always going to drive you crazy - and she's enjoying it too. Of course her friends say you're jealous. They're standing up for her. Trust your gut - can you ever really trust this woman?

Answer 4

From the sounds of it, neither of you are mature enough to be in a relationship. Break up and do some growing up.

Answer 5

Get rid of her. She sounds she's sleeping with a bunch of guys while you're clueless.