Family & Relationships - 7 July 2007

Me and my bf have been friends for 4 years and we finaly decided to begin a relationship, so we have only been 2gether for 1 month and I found out that his ex girlfriend was pregnant by him and that he have been spending a lot of time over her house all I want to know is im beautiful, classy, got a good head on my shoulders and dont have any kids. Her on the other hand is ugly, a hoodrat and she have a baby and shes a highschool dropout with no job. Why do he want to cheat with her

2007-07-07 16:32:39 · 11 answers · asked by Ms.Donna 3 in Singles & Dating

This is an oldy

The Guy name was Tommy

He was called yellow by the people in town because they thought of him as a coward

his dad died in prison but before he died he told Tommy not to make the same mistakes as he did and "he did not need to fight to be a man"

He was in love with a girl named Becky

But the villige gang raped her and at the end Tommy Killed the gang and said "sometimes you have to fight because your a man"

2007-07-07 16:32:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What is it that you are really looking for in a girlfriend and future wife? I am a blond with an average size body. I have two degrees and a career. I have a great personality, so what is it about me that i can't get a man to look twice at me? All I want is a real gentlemen who knows how to treat a woman.

2007-07-07 16:20:33 · 6 answers · asked by Kassi B 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been seeing this guy for a week now. I think about him constantly, and every time he calls, writes, comes over, or I just think about him I get butterflies. I think I love him, but i'm not sure. How can I be sure, and if it is how do I tell him without scaring him off or should I wait for him to say it first?

2007-07-07 16:18:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

in my past relationship, when I thought things were going great- the woman would cheat with some other guy. are american women not happy unless there is some sort of drama to their lives?

2007-07-07 16:16:35 · 33 answers · asked by baron d 2 in Singles & Dating

i have been crushing on him, and we r friends but i want to be more than friends

2007-07-07 16:11:52 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

can you give me your advice in letter form if you have this situation:


what are you going to say to your friend has get addicted into drugs?

just getting opinions from people out there...

and if someone gave me a very considering answer, best answer for you, pal!!!

: )

2007-07-07 16:11:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Dear friends, if wife have a bf, after her husband, is husband talk to her, that what she want,she have bf only for sex,or for what she need bf after husband, or just directly divorce her?

2007-07-07 16:10:57 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-07 16:10:33 · 13 answers · asked by anthonyjohnsi 1 in Singles & Dating

what are some things you enjoy your girl doing for you...intimitaly?? I wanna change things up a bit with my husband...something that will make him go WOW!

2007-07-07 16:08:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just wondering.

2007-07-07 16:07:12 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

he doesnt abuse me.. cause he knows i will literally hurt him.... but i dont know what to do... and my moms boyfriend doesnt abuse him hard.. but still puts his hands on him... so please give me some advice

2007-07-07 16:02:50 · 17 answers · asked by tupacmixmaster 1 in Family

I love it but i don't know why? Haha i just think its attractive.

2007-07-07 16:00:54 · 10 answers · asked by Lala 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-07 15:59:05 · 20 answers · asked by Brandi T 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

PLease Help! Do you think these guys like me?
I go to ballroom dancing...There's two guy that are brothers..I like the oldest, Cameron and my friend, fiona told him I like him.Then, he acted shy and ignored me! Andrew, his brother, was very quiet, and shy before, until i made him smile....(I'm not attracted to him and don't like him much..too creepy)...Now he's acting stupid around me and teases me, TRIES to make me laugh..etc. Do you think he likes me? he does this to no one else except for me and his family...Now, Cameron!(ahhhh..lol)..He is now on a four week holiday...I didn't even get to hear what he thinks about me! he's been acting like he likes me.(asking me to dance heaps, hi-fiving,hugs me all of a sudden.) my friend, dusty likes him too and told him she likes him..he said he didn't like her and said "I like a girl at school"..but he sounded very unsure and almost like he was keeping a secret...I'm so confused..Please help..DOES CAMERON like me?Does Mr Creepy(andrew)like Me?

2007-07-07 15:54:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm in my 30's and have a best friend the same age for a few years. Now the problem is she keeps wanting me to sleep over her place. I've done it 3 times. It's not something I enjoy doing. I prefer to sleep in my bed. Anyway, when I do I sleep on the couch, I have a bads night sleep and I feel my day is wasted. Oh and she also want's me to sleep in the same bed with her. That I won't do. She won't take no for an answer. She begs and she just doesn't see my view. If she keeps this up she'll drive me away. Also, she thinks I'm embarassed of her as I haven't introduced her to my mum. What's up with that? She has met some of my friends. What do you think of this? I feel like she's wanting control over me as she has been in a couple of abusive relationaship. Thankyou

2007-07-07 15:53:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Without saying "i like you"

2007-07-07 15:41:43 · 5 answers · asked by jojo100 2 in Singles & Dating

OK...I never have really liked my brother's girlfriends (he has only had 2!!) but anyway. He met this one girl from his friend's ex girlfriend. This girl is 17 and my brother is 19. I am his younger sister and I try to tell him if things don't work out she can tell someone he did something to her and he get into trouble. My mom said that in the beginning too but now she is like just don't marry her or sleep with her. And its one of the employee's at our family's business step brother's daughter...but I don't want him dating her because its summer and its my time with him and if he gets a girlfriend I won't ever see him. Also I am known to be a bitchy little sister but when I tell him he goes nothing will happen I won't forget you but when I want to hang out he will be doing something with her. What should I do?

2007-07-07 15:37:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

She is just being such a ***** to me. It's almost like she enjoys hurting me. The thing is, she was exactly the same as 2 1/2 years ago. We were at "war". and now it's like we are again....i don't know what to do. but she treats all of my other friends good. so i have no one to talk to who will understand what i mean. i just don't know how to deal......

2007-07-07 15:34:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

For a couple who aren't having a large wedding, already share a home, and expecting a baby. What would an appropriate engagement gift be for such a couple?

2007-07-07 15:33:14 · 12 answers · asked by HRchick 4 in Weddings

we often play pool together..........
what shall i do? give me all the advice u've got...
more details more better. THANKS GUYZ!!!

2007-07-07 15:30:29 · 11 answers · asked by ♥HELLO♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

I am in the process of going through a divorce. I have met a very special woman that I have developed very strong feelings for. I have told her how I feel. Her answer to me was "time and patience - if it is meant to be it will be". What is your take on that? Are any of the same feelings there?

2007-07-07 15:24:55 · 27 answers · asked by mikemja316 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am in the process of going through a divorce. I have met a very special woman that I have developed very strong feelings for. I have told her how I feel. Her answer to me was "time and patience - if it is meant to be it will be". What is your take on that? Are any of the same feelings there?

2007-07-07 15:24:10 · 33 answers · asked by mikemja316 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend has a mother who was living in California the last she heard. My friends mother was mentally ill and received social security. My friend is 37 years old and hasn't seen her mom in over 21 years. She asked her mother's sister if her mom was still alive and her aunt told her " As far as your concerned she's dead" My friend really wants to know if her mom is still living or not. If her mom is dead, she wants to give her a proper burial. She is pretty upset with her aunt for not telling her the truth about her mom. Her aunt is the only person who knows the where abouts of her mom. How would she go about finding out the truth?

2007-07-07 15:14:27 · 7 answers · asked by renne o 1 in Family

am a divorced lady and deeply in love with an unmarried Man 40 yrs of age (he is a Pilot) and we used to get on very well together and our relationship went on and lasted for almost 6 months. Until recently when we got into a heated argument when he called me to tell me that he wanted to introduce me to his friend and i asked him whether if it is a "she" or "he" and he told me that was a "she" and i asked him how he came to know her and if there was any connection/ relationship between the two of them and he completely denied telling me that they were just good friends whom they know of each other a long time back. In that case if just good friends he is welcome to bring her over to be introduced. I did invite her and my boyfriend for a cuppa of coffee in my apartment and i did entertain them both without my knowledge (being in the dark) after I came to find out from the lady that they were indeed starting a relationship when the lady tel me to ask me if she could send flowers to him on his birthday, and so i asked the friend of his what was their connection and she told me that she was his girlfriend and they were starting a relationship. I told the lady that he was my boyfriend and that both of us were in a deep relationship. The lady told me that he told her that I was married and that i was just an ordinary friend who he knew off which was myself. When i came to know about this "saga" and when i faced him he became very furious and he started to bad mouth me and calling me a "BEECH" which nobody has called me in my entire life. I have been very disappointed and shattered towards his behaviour and his dis-respect towards me. We did have a heated argument but i tried to keep myself cool as much can be because i am not used to be around people with such behaviour. I loved him very much indeed and we used to get on well together until this happened. We were already talking of seriousness relationship. Please advice me if it is worth keeping him or just say a "Good Bye' to him and move on....i am in a very difficult position and we have not spoken since than never even has he called to say that he was sorry for all this. Do i need to continue with him...again..???

2007-07-07 14:59:23 · 8 answers · asked by cindrella h 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-07 14:58:44 · 8 answers · asked by Daiquiri Dream 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I grew up basically watching my mom and Dad constantly bickering. Its interfered with the way i think and now react to certain situations. The last time they fought, he was going to hit her...I heard her screaming, so i got up and went to the room. there he was over her, i g ot really mad...memories just started pouring in..So i yelled at him. (he used to hit me, but few years ago, i grew up. And i just didn't look vulnerbale). So anyways i yelled at him, i told him if he ever touced her again, i will kill him. He never did touch her, or even argue. Perhaps he woke up.

But since that day, i have no feelings for him..i never really saw him as a "father". we don't speak. i just pass straight without saying anything. It hurts not reallly having a connnection, lke sometimes you just need a bond like that...but there could never be anything there.

My mom is like, he works hard, he is your father..talk to him.
But, i dont know how. Its like, in my mind....i took him out

2007-07-07 14:42:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anthony L 3 in Family

of one of my college house-mates. We still live in the same town and haven't seen each other in a year. Is she just inviting me to be polite? I would rather just go out for coffee with her. discuss

2007-07-07 14:42:16 · 16 answers · asked by Jennifer S 4 in Weddings

I left my husband 5 years ago. Now my sister wants to make up. neither of them ever apologised or explained why they did it. I haven't spoken to her for 10 years. Am I wrong not to forgive and forget?

2007-07-07 14:39:22 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

is 13 y/o too young if so when ??

2007-07-07 14:38:12 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating