Me and my bf have been friends for 4 years and we finaly decided to begin a relationship, so we have only been 2gether for 1 month and I found out that his ex girlfriend was pregnant by him and that he have been spending a lot of time over her house all I want to know is im beautiful, classy, got a good head on my shoulders and dont have any kids. Her on the other hand is ugly, a hoodrat and she have a baby and shes a highschool dropout with no job. Why do he want to cheat with her
2007-07-07 16:32:39 · 11 answers · asked by Ms.Donna 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hun, instead of asking this question, tell him goodbye! He's an ****** for cheating on you, and he got his ex pregnant; that's not the kind of guy you want to be with! Sounds to me you're a smart girl. Your heart may be telling you to stay but your head should be telling you he's not worth your time. And after 4 years, he should be taking the relationship more seriously. My advice is to leave him; he's not committed.
2007-07-07 17:14:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all if you are all that you say you are, he should not be cheating. If you are implying that he's cheated on you many times, you have no self-esteem, because you stay with him even though he constantly cheats. This means that you do NOT have a good head on your shoulders.
Look at it this way, if she is low-life scum and cheats with her when he has you, why would you even want to be bothered with him? If my boyfriend was screwing around with an ugly hoodrat and had a kid with this slime, I'd toss his *** in one second flat! Why should you be stuck with his baby-sh**ting responsibilities??
2007-07-07 16:40:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lady, looks like you deserve better and you are way beyond his league. Let him settle for a loser and allow him to make his bed and lay in it.
Look for a guy who is looking for committment, same values as yours. However you are so darn awesome that you don't really need a man to perk you right now. Get over this guy and move on.
Don't waste your time comparing yourself with the turd, let her have all the babies she wants from him.
Pick yourself up from ground zero because you may be feeling a little low right now, and don't look back.
My dad always said that a man is yours if you have to fight for him. Really think about. Don't waste any energy on a guy like this.
You are too darn brilliant to put up with this.
2007-07-08 02:55:13 · answer #3 · answered by Emily L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-08 10:49:18 · answer #4 · answered by tahir 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Why do he want to cheat" on you?
You say you have a good head on your shoulders?
Listen to yourself.
Look at how you behaved around him and how you treated him. Then as this question again.
I am not excusing him and I am not saying you are an idiot. He has a responsibility to that kid now.
Learn some better English Ebonics does not work.
2007-07-07 16:40:40 · answer #5 · answered by Spirit Bear 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
They have a history together and you knew that when you started dating. Maybe you should back off and let him figure out what he wants to do with his life.
2007-07-07 16:45:35 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Instantkarma♥♫ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe that's the kind of woman that he wants.. Find out if that's the case, if so leave him. Even if it's not the case leave anyway!!!
2007-07-07 16:37:06 · answer #7 · answered by Alisha 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont think hes trying to cheat i think hes just taking responsibility for his actions of the past relationship....
2007-07-07 16:37:20 · answer #8 · answered by halo_1_rocks117 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you allow him to do so. Why did you take him back? That is the question you should ask yourself.
2007-07-07 17:32:57 · answer #9 · answered by nutty59 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't even worry about it and just move on and find somebondy on the same level you are
2007-07-07 16:37:56 · answer #10 · answered by J Eazzzy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋