She is just being such a ***** to me. It's almost like she enjoys hurting me. The thing is, she was exactly the same as 2 1/2 years ago. We were at "war". and now it's like we are again....i don't know what to do. but she treats all of my other friends good. so i have no one to talk to who will understand what i mean. i just don't know how to deal......
2007-07-07 15:34:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sounds like she has some jealousies where you are concerned. However, such behavior is juvenile and not worth your time. Break off contact with her until she can grow up a little.
2007-07-14 23:09:22 · answer #1 · answered by Top Alpha Wolf 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had this same problem too. And I know it's hard when you're in a group of friends cos if you ditch the *****, you loose the rest of the group too.
The best thing you can do is distance yourself from her a bit, still send her polite text messages every now and then and have 'surface' chats, but don't tell her anything personal that she could use against you. When you do have to talk to her, ask her things about herself and others rather than giving her the opportunity to be nasty to you.
She's probably very jealous of you and that should be compensation enough for you not to lower your self to her level (always remember that when she tries to get a reaction)
Make your real friends in the group the ones you make your self closest too.
2007-07-08 05:11:27 · answer #2 · answered by Introverted extrovert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya know, people are the way they are sometimes and you shouldn't have to worry about how people treat you. You are who you want to be. If the lady is treating you that way and you don' t like it, real simple, don't talk to her. I have had a female co-worker like that and she always wanted to start crap up with everybody. That was 5 years ago. Now she is all by herself and lonely. Back then she thought that she had all the attention in the world and she was the Sh*t. People like that just want attention. Just leave them alone. That's what I did. I just don't bother her no more and she still has crap going on in her life. That's her life! So.....Your life is yours and live it the way you want happiness. Don't worry who your friends are and how they might treat you. If you know you are doing the right thing and you know you have tried to be nice and nothing seems to work then move on to other people that can be good friends to you. Nobody needs that kind of crap. Enjoy your life and stop worrying about other people!!!
2007-07-15 07:06:37 · answer #3 · answered by b dude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore this girl when possible, and when confronted with her be the better person by killing her with kindess. I don't know why some people insist on acting the way they do, but that is there problem and their own insecurities. Just keep your head held high and don't let her know she gets to you, as she seems to feed off your reactions in some sick way. Best of luck.
2007-07-15 19:28:57 · answer #4 · answered by Clara C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your friend is jealous of you, it happens, stop and think what are some of the thing you fight over.
have you ever thought of confronting her about the way you feel, and as far as I can tell you give an inch they will take a mile you give a mile and they will take it and the story goes on and on so it all lies with you and just how much you are willing to give and take
2007-07-15 21:04:35 · answer #5 · answered by karibbean beauty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cut her off...it's obvious that you two are not compatible(it happens everybody cant get alone..and the inner-truth usually surfaces) and at the end of the day...the stress nor the time is worth it.
ya dig?!
2007-07-15 05:33:05 · answer #6 · answered by TheOne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
times like this you need to learn to let go. it obvious this girl is crazy and is in the need of psychiatric help. Your crazy just b\c you call her your FRIEND and sista that ain't a friend.
2007-07-15 21:32:12 · answer #7 · answered by midnitesnack21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit down one on one and ask her whats up. explain that you thought everything was OK and you are felling it is not.If there is no logical reasons for her change of attitude find someone else to hang out with
2007-07-15 19:17:22 · answer #8 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do not talk to her if she is that way also make new friends when she is with your old ones u r with the new ones
2007-07-15 16:28:23 · answer #9 · answered by dashe m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listense isnt the only persod in the world get new friends
2007-07-15 19:11:30 · answer #10 · answered by muhaymin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋