im 16 and my brother is 14... my moms boyfriend is abusing my littlle borother.. what should i do about this?

Question

he doesnt abuse me.. cause he knows i will literally hurt him.... but i dont know what to do... and my moms boyfriend doesnt abuse him hard.. but still puts his hands on him... so please give me some advice

Answer 1

tell your mom. she loves your brother more than she loves her boyfriend. if that doesnt work, tell someone else in your family who will beleive you and make this stop. if that doesnt work, tell someone who will do something about this.

Answer 2

u sound responsible. the next step is to stop what is happening to your brother. This is hurting him terribly. If can talk with your mother, do that, if she is not capable of believing you, counseling at your school can report it to child services. or any abuse hotline can give you the advise you need for your area.
May be difficult, but you have the power to do it. In the mean time, don't let your brother be alone with the guy. He's bad news.

Answer 3

I hope this isn't your idea of a funny joke! You should know
what to do if someone is putting their hands on your brother
in a threatening or hurtful way. Call the police from a phone
other than your own,and wait for them to come to you. Or you
go to their precinct. Or call the county welfare office and speak to someone from "Child Services". Tell them what
you are telling this blog. They will investigate. Make your
story convincing, and tell them you are afraid for your little
brother. I'm sure they'll listen and do something. Especially
if you tell them you don't feel safe for you and your brother
living there. Let us know what happens.
I hope you aren't sitting there and having a good laugh at
my expense. There are already enough jokesters on JA.

Answer 4

Well first thing is tell your mom. And if you have any type of evidence that backs you up then show it to her. Your little brother should also be there with you just in case. And make sure her bf isn't around because he'll come up with some lame excuse to make himself seem innocent. Hopefully she will believe you but if she by any chance doesn't then try to contact the police. They should be able to help you out.

Answer 5

well you could just probably talk to her or something because personally i think that is 100% totally wrong. so talk to her and say what you feel, that just might work. tell her that you dont like the fact that this man is abusing or hurting my brother in this matter. If she is to afraid to say anything to her bf and then tell an oficer or someone you can trust and that can help. or if he is going up to ure brother do something like yell stop or push hium away but if he gets mad and hits you then you know what to do alright i wish you all the luck. and i hope what i said will help you!!! (:

Answer 6

Talk to your mom first - she doesn't listen, you NEED TO TELL SOMEONE. Seriously, this could get out of hand, and this man has NO RIGHT to be touching your brother. Tell someone you trust if your mom doesn't do anything about it, and see if they can help out. If not, you'll need to call the police. I'm really sorry, and I hope things work out for you and your brother. I'm praying for you guys :-)

Answer 7

You need to to tell your mom and if she already knows and won't do anything about it, you need to call child and family services. They will investigate. Or you can call the police, but that may make things worse for you and your brother. Be cautious, but do seek help for your brother. Good luck.

Answer 8

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Answer 9

The next time he raise his hand grab a knife and tell him
You'll Gut Him like a pig' and put the fear of god in him.
Before he gets to comfortable and hit your mom or you next.Thinking he's the only one with an advantage in that relationship.

Answer 10

Pls dont put it off...your brother is being damaged, at least emotionally, for the rest of his life, and it needs to stop NOW!! Be the one to help him, call the police, talk to a counselor or if you think your mom will listen and believe, tell her. This guy needs to be literally hurt, wtf is wrong with people these days? Stand up for those who cant stand up for themselves...get help for you, your brother, and your mother...talk to someone now who can help.