am a divorced lady and deeply in love with an unmarried Man 40 yrs of age (he is a Pilot) and we used to get on very well together and our relationship went on and lasted for almost 6 months. Until recently when we got into a heated argument when he called me to tell me that he wanted to introduce me to his friend and i asked him whether if it is a "she" or "he" and he told me that was a "she" and i asked him how he came to know her and if there was any connection/ relationship between the two of them and he completely denied telling me that they were just good friends whom they know of each other a long time back. In that case if just good friends he is welcome to bring her over to be introduced. I did invite her and my boyfriend for a cuppa of coffee in my apartment and i did entertain them both without my knowledge (being in the dark) after I came to find out from the lady that they were indeed starting a relationship when the lady tel me to ask me if she could send flowers to him on his birthday, and so i asked the friend of his what was their connection and she told me that she was his girlfriend and they were starting a relationship. I told the lady that he was my boyfriend and that both of us were in a deep relationship. The lady told me that he told her that I was married and that i was just an ordinary friend who he knew off which was myself. When i came to know about this "saga" and when i faced him he became very furious and he started to bad mouth me and calling me a "BEECH" which nobody has called me in my entire life. I have been very disappointed and shattered towards his behaviour and his dis-respect towards me. We did have a heated argument but i tried to keep myself cool as much can be because i am not used to be around people with such behaviour. I loved him very much indeed and we used to get on well together until this happened. We were already talking of seriousness relationship. Please advice me if it is worth keeping him or just say a "Good Bye' to him and move on....i am in a very difficult position and we have not spoken since than never even has he called to say that he was sorry for all this. Do i need to continue with him...again..???
2007-07-07 14:59:23 · 8 answers · asked by cindrella h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you serious to even think to continue with him. He brought another woman to your home. He lied to you. Then dis-respect you by calling you out of your name. BE DONE COMPLETELY. I would have been done once I realized he brought his girlfriend to my home and we are suppose to be in a relationship. Do not let your emotions guide you. It has only been approx. 6 months. You probably have been alone since your divorce and feel that you actually love him. Let it go, or the pain and hurt will continue. How would you be able to trust him? You will always have that thought of what he did lingering in your mind. A man needs to respect you and treat you like the world, not the other way around. I know it hurts, but you will look back on this and realize you have made a mistake. He has not even called you to apologize. DO NOT CALL HIM, DO NOT THINK HE MISS YOU, DO NOT GO BACK.
2007-07-07 15:15:55 · answer #1 · answered by B J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is one of the biggest jerks I've heard of! DEFINITELY drop him like a rock and don't communicate with him any more!
If he had any feelings/interest/ respect for you, he would never have done what he did.
Don't walk but RUN to a decent guy!
2007-07-07 15:10:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get yourself a new guy. Once there are issues like that they will always be issues. No one deserves to be treated the way you where by him. I am sorry you have to deal with this issue.
2007-07-07 15:04:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you have written I would say that you have been used and should just walk away from the whole relationship
2007-07-07 15:05:06 · answer #4 · answered by Pengy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him to the curb...you deserve better than him. He is a liar and a schemer. That was very disrespectful, bold and conceited of him to actually bring that woman to your home...
2007-07-07 15:12:14 · answer #5 · answered by You Don't Know Me! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, live this louse while you can. He is dangerous. What makes you have to ask this question. That I don't understand. No one should take terrible treatment like that from anyone.
2007-07-07 15:06:52 · answer #6 · answered by rubyred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUH!!!!! The answer is NO! He's a jerk!!! Who'd want to continue a relationship with a creep like that? He lied to BOTH OF YOU!!! Is **that** what you want in a Life Partner?
2007-07-07 15:05:03 · answer #7 · answered by bitadkins 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he does it once hell do it again
2007-07-07 15:06:38 · answer #8 · answered by cali-jazz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋