I have been seeing this guy for a week now. I think about him constantly, and every time he calls, writes, comes over, or I just think about him I get butterflies. I think I love him, but i'm not sure. How can I be sure, and if it is how do I tell him without scaring him off or should I wait for him to say it first?
2007-07-07 16:18:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont think you love him. i think you really like him. just wait, and if you continue to feel this waythen at least wait till you two have been together for more than a month. Also if you feel it, dont wait for him. if you say I LOVE YOU and he gets scared, then he wasnt the one for you anyway
2007-07-07 16:25:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH NO WOMAN!
take it easy. you are just feeling something OTHER than love. i have been dating my g/f for 9 months and JUST started saying i love you to each other. you have to get into a fight, and share a lot of things before you jump into the water feet first. once you say that, you cant take it back. that is something a lot of people toss around and it crushes you when you love someone and they really didnt mean it after all. they just said it and went with it to make you feel good about yourself. 7 days is NOTHING when it comes to love, and if you say it, i think you will crash and burn with this guy. i have had friends who think they are in love and all that great jazz, and say it within a matter of days....and it has failed EVERY SINGLE TIME. take your time, and things will happen the way it should be.
2007-07-07 23:26:25 · answer #2 · answered by notcatchable 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A week is way way way too soon to be saying I love you to a guy. You say it now and he is going to run in the opposite direction very fast. You barely know him, and maybe you should wait until you have been with him a little longer before you make such a serious claim.
2007-07-07 23:30:01 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Instantkarma♥♫ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give it some more time because you can never be sure just after a week. unless you liked him a while before you two got together, then you may be right. but a lot of people think they love someone but then they realize that they just WANTED to be in love. ask him if he loves you but don't be disappointed if he says he doesn't because a week may be too little for him. whatever happens, just hope for a great, long lasting relationship because it seems like a good one already.
BEST OF LUCK!!
2007-07-07 23:24:51 · answer #4 · answered by Samaira 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its never to soon as long as u really love him. well, my bf and i started sayin i love yous after just 2 days. and it didnt feel like it was too soon at all because we both loved each other be4 we got together, and it was real love. so go ahead and say it
2007-07-07 23:22:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im kinda in the same boat as you
im just getting comfortable with him
and gonna see what happens
dont wanna freak him out
and that wayy to early to say it
2007-07-07 23:29:53 · answer #6 · answered by krystal_metth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love starts when infatuation ends..Give it time.
2007-07-07 23:21:25 · answer #7 · answered by KID87 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋