What can I do to help meet my mans need for the touchy feely?
2007-07-07 13:09:43 · 10 answers · asked by chocolatelovely2002 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Have you informed your husband? You can tell your husband you still adore him without being touchy. In a marriage your feelings are just as important. If your husband really adores you too, he will accept you and your feelings. Then the next important question will be, when will he help out with the laundry!?
2007-07-07 13:29:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go out of your way a couple times a day to just make some sort of contact with him. Walk across the room and give him A hug, a peck on the cheek, anything, for no reason.
2007-07-07 20:18:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you love your husband and you want to keep your husband, i suggest you learn on how to become touchy feely. I mean, how hard can that be?
2007-07-07 20:14:36 · answer #3 · answered by leesa 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Make an effort to find out why touching bothers you so much. If you can find the touching that is most comfortable (like holding hands) or specific, like a back rub and concentrate on them it may be better for you.
Try to find a compromise or he may get his needs met elsewhere.
2007-07-07 20:14:51 · answer #4 · answered by dizzkat 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
explain to your husband. then work together to get you to relax, holding hands can be very erotic. or bubble bath and him out of the tub just trickling water on you. you need to relax and feel safe with him.
2007-07-07 20:52:44 · answer #5 · answered by rayhab 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to let yourself be a little more open to it.
i know when a person isn't as open to it as the other person, it hurts a little bit.
you don't have to be all over each other, just open yourself up to it a bit more, and you'll become more comfortable as time goes on.
:)
2007-07-07 20:14:12 · answer #6 · answered by Kaja 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start showing him physical affection. If you really do care about him you'll start working harder toward meeting his needs.
If you don't he may get it somewhere else.
2007-07-08 01:16:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's called "acting!!!"
2007-07-07 20:14:00 · answer #8 · answered by Larry F 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
work at it hard or let him go to someone who cares about him
2007-07-07 20:12:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Let him touch you, duh.
2007-07-07 20:12:40 · answer #10 · answered by Free the monkey in you! 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋