does anyone know what the best thing to do when one of your family members is getting divorced?

Answer 1

I DO!!!! After 30 years being married to a jerk, I'm divorcing him, the best advise I can give you is do not take a side there's two side to everything, and tell the family member you do not want to be involved in this any way shape or form.
The story's I could tell you about this, it's been two years now and we still aren't divorced yet., all because of him trying to wear me down.