we've been on two dates and it was great, i couldn't stop laughing, we had such a great time and i really like this guy. but he hasn't grabbed my hand or kissed me or shown any signs of affection except when we stare directly into each others eyes i can tell he really cares for me. and i know for a fact he likes me, (cause im friends with his best friend who tells me) but he doesn't think i like him. he has tried to tell me he likes me but he just gets so nervous. but we get along great, but im starting to feel like im dating a hot best friend since he is showing no affection or even one sign of flirting. should i make the move or give up. cause my mind is starting to think of him as a best friend. what do i do? nothing?
2007-07-07 17:59:46 · 15 answers · asked by <3 strawberry smoothies<3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why not make the first move and initiate a kiss? See if there are any sparks?!
2007-07-07 18:02:26 · answer #1 · answered by nasar5@sbcglobal.net 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Two dates isn't really that long a time to go without physical affection. He may be worried about how you would react if he did try to kiss you or hold your hand. Sometimes it's hard for guys to decide when we should attempt that first kiss. Besides, where is it written in stone that guys have to be the first one to make a physical move? In life, you can be proactive or you can sit back and wait, hoping that what you want comes to you. The first part usually gets you more results.
2007-07-07 18:04:00 · answer #2 · answered by bluejester12 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you want it to become more than friends, then make the first move!! You'll never know what could have been if you don't try. Starting off as good friends is a GREAT way to begin a relationship, so you are already off to a good start. Sounds like he may just need for you to make the first move for it to become something more.
2007-07-07 18:04:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
He may be nervous, and don't know how you feel about him. If you like him like that, why don't you take the archive to kiss him first, you know ,some guys like aggressive women. You know he likes you because his friends have told you, but he don't know that you like him. Why not show your affection slowly, with taking his hand first, or a small tap on the lips, can sometime break the ice.
2007-07-07 18:20:59 · answer #4 · answered by carmel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You like him and want him to make a move. You know that he likes you. So....make a move on him...try to kiss him for instance. Don't do exactly what most girls tell guys not to do and that is to "play head games". If he likes you, he will take over after the ice breaker and kiss you back. Doesn't sound like he's playing games....sounds like he's just shy.
2007-07-07 18:08:23 · answer #5 · answered by CDFan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make the move! the best bf or gf are the ones that are like best friends b.c you have more in common and have more fun together. if he doesn't show any kind of interest after you make the move then he isn't interested. maybe he's just being extra respectful to show you that he does care about you
2007-07-07 18:04:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell her he asked you out and which you like him. Strt from there together with her. If she is a sturdy chum she would be able to motivate you in identifying for it. then you definitely can tell her you pronounced confident and it won't could be a secret anymore without her being mad.
2016-10-20 06:13:30 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a move! You already know he likes you, and that he is unsure about your feelings, so you have nothing to lose by letting him know how you feel.
2007-07-07 18:05:12 · answer #8 · answered by House 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make the move. if you know for a fact that he likes you then what's stopping you from making the move.
2007-07-07 18:05:36 · answer #9 · answered by Shu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make the move, If you know he likes you, and you think he doesn't know you like him, you have to tell him you like him
2007-07-07 18:04:01 · answer #10 · answered by Greg 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋