is coming over to take a nap with me because he knows i like them and hes laid back. we dated a couple of times and recently we had a serious talk. i talk to him non stop.were probably going to hook up again. he said he just wanted to sleep. should i trust him i'm not going to have sex with him but do you think he will try to have sex? please help.
2007-07-07 17:55:37 · 21 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is not going to rape you. If you want to have sex with him, you can find a way to let him know. If not, then don't sleep with him.
2007-07-13 17:29:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you not have self control? I mean, if you want to have sex, then have sex. (safely of course).
But if your into him, maybe you should talk to him about having a relationship again. Your older now and maybe it will work out for the best.
Plus, guys like a hook up. If he knows he can get it, he'll want to go get it. If he tries to have sex with you, and you don't want just sex, then tell him. Don't let him use you.
Good luck. Hope this helps.
2007-07-15 16:41:42 · answer #2 · answered by lilpeaches0315 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the question is do u want to, would you mind..basically its what you think. there is a reason why you and him went on and off and if you want to get back together with him and him and you are as close as you say then if it comes up, then you decide wether you in the mood or not. i probably would if we were that close and if it came up and i knew that i could trust him, but i wouldnt if u think he is only coming over for it.
2007-07-16 00:53:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants sex. Hoping for sex. Are you strong enough to resist him if he tries since you said you don't want to. If the answer is not 100% No!!!!! I would nap solo my dear!
2007-07-15 23:42:50 · answer #4 · answered by Woman in Red 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ofcourse he is going to try to have sex with you, I can tellyou every single move he is going to make. he is going to give you a massage and your defense will be down becouse you feel so relax and befoe you know it you are in bed togeher again. If he has any kind of experence chanse are that he will be succesful.
2007-07-15 13:59:55 · answer #5 · answered by chemdog23_2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He would certainly be an unusual guy if he didn't at least try. Now the question is how hard will he try? Another question is, if you don't want sex, why are you getting into position? Are you leading him on unintentionally? I think you may be. Check yourself, not him.
Peace
2007-07-15 23:13:26 · answer #6 · answered by Linda B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you both would like to believe that nothin' will happen but it's naive, after havin' been intimate already, to believe that. If you don't want the intimacy to take place outside of a relationship with him then you need to consider that and speak about him after doing so.
2007-07-08 01:01:42 · answer #7 · answered by Girly-Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless he's gay, I don't think his intentions are to come over and take a nap. Even if that were the case, that's so weird.
2007-07-08 00:59:31 · answer #8 · answered by zimmiesgrl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You seem to have the he and I messed up in your question. You should ask yourself: Do I trust myself not to have sex with him (if that is what you want to avoid)? Will he try to have sex? You can't try to have sex with somebody, you can only try to initiate it, so it is basically your call if he does try to initiate. He might to try to initiate, but who knows? If he is a cool and muture guy he will respect your wishes. Similarly, he might not want to have sex, even if you try to initate, and it that case you need to respect his wishes too.
The fact that you invite him over, even to sleep over, does not imply that you are inviting him over for sex. You are putting yourself in a possible dangerous (rape) situation, or at least in a an uncomfortable situation if you don't tell him exactly what yoyu are inviting him over for, so it helps if you communicate in advance very clearly. If you tell him no chance for sex, he might not come over, but thats saves on grief later.
A girl invited me over once quite late, and when I got their she was already in bed. She asked if I wanted to watch a movie, so she turned on the DVD and we both got into bed (quite unclothed) and she fell asleep when I was holding her and I watched the movie. Around 1:30 am the movie was over and I did not want to drive home, so I asked her if I could sleep over, and she said fine. So when we turned out the lights I started touching her etc, but she said that she did not want any sex, so hey, I just went to sleep holding her. Not exactly what I wanted, but I am too old to force myself on anybody since that is boring.
2007-07-12 12:15:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah he's not napping on his mind gurl... Unless you want to deal with this I would let him know you are no longer into napping.
2007-07-16 00:32:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋