i need some advice?

Question

this girl and i had been talking for about a month. with a couple dates she seemed really interested and even told me her kid comes first then me. Even though i told her I should be third and she should be second. We talked about 3 or 4 times a week but recently her babys daddy lied to the court and got her kid put in his custody. Ive tried to call since then but no answer and no call back. Im normally a two call guy. Call twice with no answer no reply in two weeks and I just forget about them but I cant get her off my mind what should i do? Out of all the girls Ive ever met this one is the one putting me though hell knowing i cant do a thing or can I do something and not seeing it? sorry bout the rant just have to figure it out

Answer 1

She's in trouble and sounds like she needs a friend. Keep trying and offer support. She'll need it. She must be special to you and that's important. Now you can prove how special you can be. Hang in there, she'll show up. I wish you both good luck.

Answer 2

send her a email.try sending her some flower with a card telling her how you feel. Do you know any of her family or close friend, Maybe you can ask them what's up! It's hard when it comes to kids .You might have to move on. Can you help her out by getting a lawyer to help her with the problem. Did she care for you.

Answer 3

Are you completely sure that he lied to the court? Maybe she isn't who you think she is. She could be a person that finds all of your weaknesses and adapts her personality to charm you. If she was truly interested, she would be looking for your shoulder to cry on right now. I would find somebody else with less baggage. You can do better.

Answer 4

Call her and leave a message if you can. If not try to contact any of her family and tell them to tell her. That you can't sleep, can't think, can't walk, without stumbling over the thought of her. tell her that she's all you can think about and you don't want to not be with her. Then give her time. Losing her baby is too much for her. If she loves you she'll call

Answer 5

right now she is hurting over her child and probably just need some time alone. i would just leave her a sweet message on her phone and just wait till she calls you back. just let her know that you understand the situation she is going thru and that if she needs someone to talk to or a shoulder to cry on then you will be there for here, but dont bugg her right now.

Answer 6

if she isnt responding sounds like she is just too cowardly to tell you that maybe she got back with the father. its better to just forget about the whole thing and treat it like a break up. i know its hard but i would try one more time and if nothing happened by the next morning i would just move on and forget about it. sorry this happened and good luck.

Answer 7

she is probably extremely busy trying to gain custody of her child again wait a week give her another call leave her a message asking whats up if she doesn't reply i would move on.

Answer 8

one thing you shouldn't do is forget her.she is probably feeling sad because of the custody situation and doesn't want to talk to any one.you should leave her a message saying that you want to talk to her.maybe then she will call you back

Answer 9

i think you should try and under stand that she is just going thought hard times rite now and you should buy flowers and bring them to here.

Answer 10

give her time.......

if its worth it...it will happen.
meanwhile, do something nice for her and then see if she has time for you