I found out that my friend cheated on her BF, who I'm also somewhat friends with, with one of HIS friends. This is after a whole evening of flirting with another guy to the point he asked me to save him several times, and he had to leave to bar so fast to get away from her, he left his debit card behind. She's also well known at work as a big flirt, and lies that she's got something going on with every guy there. She doesn't care how it affects the other person. She even told people that one guy attacked her in her car, when all he did was call her bluff after she spent the whole evening hinting around that she would show him her breasts. She pulled her shirt up before he even finished the sentence.
2007-07-07 18:34:14 · 9 answers · asked by summerlandcollies 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Don't get involved. It isnt your busness. You friend will get his wake up call when he is ready to see what is so obvious. All you will do if you mention it is make yourself look silly and jealous and nothing will be done about it. Trust me, I know. This girl does sound like a serious attetion seeker but it is your friends bf that has to do something about this.
2007-07-07 18:39:16 · answer #1 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mind your business on this one. Chances are he knows what she is. Some people get mad at you for telling them something they already know. If you tell him.. he'll probably stay with her and stop being friends with you.. as would she. My question for you is: why are you friends with a girl like this? From what you described she is immoral, promiscious and a liar. There is a saying "show me your friends and I'll show you: you" and the biblical verse "how can two walk together unless they agree".
2007-07-08 01:39:00 · answer #2 · answered by Lydia W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would be telling the b/friend or let him figure it out on his own. if you're good friends with him....perhaps hinting around..or find out where SHE says she's going but where you know she'll definately be and send HIM there....he can see for himself.
Hopefully one day she wakes up and realizes that's not how she wants to live her life and makes some better choices. GoodLuck*
2007-07-08 01:39:47 · answer #3 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if your a true friend you should.I guess to turn the tables and ask yourself if you would want to know.After you tell your friend then he can make the decision on what he wants to do.
2007-07-08 01:40:37 · answer #4 · answered by kittens 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are between 2 people. Butt out and don't get involved.
2007-07-08 01:39:26 · answer #5 · answered by reinformer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would gently tell the boyfriend (but don't accidentally end up sending a message that you're jealous of them and like him)...but from what you say, this girl has a reputation so he should take the news...but you should definitely tell him!
2007-07-08 01:38:08 · answer #6 · answered by stevethebeeve 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would totally tell. He definitely needs to know. If you don't tell, something a lot worse could happen.
2007-07-08 01:37:53 · answer #7 · answered by OrangeFuu 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
See as much as i would not want to know deep down i know its best
2007-07-08 01:45:28 · answer #8 · answered by ca803 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think i would tell, but anonymously
2007-07-08 01:38:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋