Little lies that wouldn't normally bother you if in singles, but they're bulked up and over an extended period of time. Your partner seems to be having a chronic liar phase. You've established for sure that he/she is not cheating, but would the lies still bother you?
2007-07-07 18:37:27 · 12 answers · asked by Elphaba 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Glad I'm not the only one who feels this way. I've been told that I overreacted about this situation.
2007-07-07 18:41:19 · update #1
Of course! You should never lie to your partner. And if you do, you should never get caught! AND if you get caught once, you should never lie again.
Tell them that you're sick of their lies, no matter how big or small, and if they keep it up, then it's over. And that's no lie my friend.
2007-07-07 18:42:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes indeed, it would bother me for my mate to tell lies to me. Trust is the most important thing in a relationship, as well as, respect. If you don't have both, the relationship falls apart over time. His lying certainly would make me wonder when he was telling the truth. It's difficult enough to maintain a good relationship without lies. With lies it just would become too stressful for me.
2007-07-07 18:47:42 · answer #2 · answered by pattimaris1675@sbcglobal.net 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea because lying can be a bad habit that may surface at the wrong time. Its the use of the lies that is the problem. Everyone lies, really, but ideally everyone should know the proper situation and context when they should lie. You cant lie all the time. when you do, hopefully its consequences on everyone else and yourself have been carefully been analyzed.
2007-07-07 18:44:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 03:07:41 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i think naturally you lose trust because if there is no reason to lie then it makes you wonder why go through the trouble,the lies would bother me.
2007-07-07 18:41:01 · answer #5 · answered by MO 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Very much. That's the reason that me and my ex split up. If they lie about a lot of little things there's nothing to make you think they won't lie about a few big things either. Of course, I'll be honest and say that I'm pretty sensitive too, so it may just be me.
2007-07-07 18:39:55 · answer #6 · answered by jwilkes99999 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely lose trust in my partner if he lied because how can u have a relationship when it's all based on lies.
2007-07-07 19:10:06 · answer #7 · answered by Sasha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DEFINATELY!~ any lie, big or small is a LIE and lies are only told when you don't want someone finding out exactly what you're up to/doing.
I would dig deeper and find out what he 's trying to hide* GoodLuck*
2007-07-07 18:41:44 · answer #8 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course! How can anyone trust someone after tons of lies?
2007-07-07 18:45:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only kind of relationship you can have with a dishonest person is a dishonest relationship.
Time to move on.
2007-07-07 18:41:08 · answer #10 · answered by PhD 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋