Let me describe myself to u, Well one of my main problems is that I’m just very shy and I don’t know what to do about it. I’m a funny guy actually and I’ve heard many times from my friends(girls) that I’m very cute and they told me they really don’t see why I can’t find a girlfriend. Can I have some advise plz?
2007-07-07 22:58:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just ask a girl out that u know and if she says no then u are probleming having girl problems, cuz first of all girls really want guys to make the move first
2007-07-07 23:01:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Problem in finding a gf? Because ur not looking! u said urself ur very shy, that means u cant ask a girl out. How would u find one? U already have female friends, that's a start. And then there was you....
2007-07-08 00:29:44 · answer #2 · answered by wildflower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just have some confidence and just get talkin to some girls and before you know it youll be in bed with one , no jokes it will happen quicker than you think , unless ure not at the legal age then thats a differant story
2007-07-07 23:01:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bro, you have nice guy syndrome... I'm currently in my first ever "true" friendship with a girl (i blame it on nice guy syndrome too)..... What you need to do is mask your niceness with a bit of machoness and cockiness... so in the end you will be
Macho, cocky, nice and sensitive at the same time and do some things to boost your self confidence!
Don't give him BS about girls liking shy guys, THEY DONT.... they want someone who leads them and is outgoing and not afraid to argue with her and not needy/clingy.... Never, once in my life did i get a girl when i was shy and before i turned 18 i was really really shy.
2007-07-07 23:01:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
be sincere and confident about your self are the two things that you should have before you ask a date.
most of the time, it is not looks that women are after in a man, but it is more of sincerity and the confidence that makes a man more interesting and lovable.
you can try asking a friend to be your girl, becasue the best foundation of a love relationship is friendship.
2007-07-07 23:12:08 · answer #5 · answered by happy damsel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe yourself! You are a funny and attractive person on your female friend's eyes...... Keep smile when you meet people..... May be u have some criteria to find a girl friend..... Hope u can find the right one as soon as possible. :)
2007-07-07 23:11:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
intuitivity said it. being shy doesn't get you anywhere, you have to be abit louder and out there (not to loud and cocky).
this may not be the way in finding a women but talk to women like you talk to guys, just be open and have fun (not sitting and saying minimum)
2007-07-07 23:52:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maby if you try and overcome your shyness girls will come flocking!
But still most girls love shy guys, so if you just approach a girl you like, maby you will get yourself a girfriend.
Good Luck x
2007-07-07 23:02:40 · answer #8 · answered by mariah 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Date one of your friends ;) j/k
You need to open up to a girl when you meet her.. try not to be so shy. Are you embarassed of yourself? maybe try a new hairstyle, go shopping for new clothes, anything to help your self esteem higher.
2007-07-07 23:02:28 · answer #9 · answered by Fokas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a job waiting tables. It will help you get out of your shell and you'll meet tons of people. Ask any waiter or waitress about this and they will back me up. Wait people date!
2007-07-07 23:05:17 · answer #10 · answered by Mic 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋