theres this guy i know i used 2 like and im pretty sure i still like him i just cant tell for sure, his girlfriend whos my friends too just broke up with him but before that when ever i read things on his profile about how much he loves her and how beautiful she is i always got really jealous and sad because that wasnt me. im ALWAYS thinking about him literally. i have a boyfriends though.
now in confused though because he just told me that she broke up with him and i feel so bad for him because i know how much he likes her.
do i like him or just as friends?
2007-07-07 22:59:56 · 9 answers · asked by Kelsey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i think you have feelings for him. you care that he got heartbroken, thats sweet :] try getting toknow him better, become closer friends and then you will be able to tell a lot easier.
2007-07-07 23:02:43 · answer #1 · answered by ilovetosing. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is sometimes hard when we are teens to figure out our
feelings from time to time.
First of all, though....if it is your girlfriend who just broke up with
him......perhaps they will patch things up and go back together....
You would not want to come between them would you?
Isn't that part of loyalty between girlfriends? You do not go
after the other girl's boyfriend (broken up or not).
When you read how he felt about your girlfriend---that he
feels she is beautiful and how much he loves her.....you
may have felt jealous not because you love him but
because you would like someone to feel that way about
you.
Perhaps your boyfriend does not say or write such things
about you. Not all boys or girls are good at being able
to write their feelings out on paper, dear. That doesn't
mean they do not feel that way, though.
If you have a boyfriend, how unfair to him would it be if you
didn't really care for him but were pining for your girlfriend's
ex?
It is fine to feel badly for this young man because his heart
may be broken right now. He may well really love your
friend and may hope that they can get back together.
It is not unusual for us to feel badly for those we know
and are friendly with when they go through hard times. You may be reading too much into the feelings you have for
this boy.
You do not say but it does not sound like he has made any
overtures to you or indicated in any way he is interested in you.
My advice for you is to be honest with yourself concerning
your own boyfriend. Do you really care for him or are you
stringing him along so that you have a boyfriend or some
other not so honest reason?
If you really do not care for him, it would be kinder to let
him go so he can find someone who sincerely cares for him,
rather than use him to have a boyfriend, to have a date,
that kind of thing.
I certainly would not put any moves on your girlfriend's
boyfriend. You could devastate your girlfriend and lose
your friendship with her, and if you tell her ex boyfriend
about your feelings, and he only wants her back and is
not interested in you, then he may be uncomfortable
with you after that---so it is quite possible that no good would come of you revealing what you have shared with this
question.
Be there for your friends......they are hurting right now.
Be a good friend, a loyal friend.....care about them right now, not how you feel about the boy.
And think honestly about your current boyfriend and if you
are being honest and fair to him.....You want to grow into
a woman who is loyal, kind, and fair minded.....so you need
to foster those ideals now.....
I wish you all the very best.......you will not regret thinking through your feelings.
Doris
WithWingsofAngels@comcast.net
2007-07-08 06:15:52 · answer #2 · answered by Doris L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont crossover his life now let him get over the girl yo udont want him to get back to her while you are going out with him, besize that you have a boyfriend? what kind of girl are you if you dont want your boyfriend dont waste his time girl thats really mean of you come on
im not been critical or agressive but im saying that you are now confused about that guy but if that guy really likes that girl a lot then they ll probably get back together i dont advise you to hang out with the guy or hit on him because even if he goes with the flauw you ll only be spending time with him to confort him until he gets back to his girl .
2007-07-08 06:05:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you LOVE him. You think of him most of the time and you get jealous with his girlfriend (now ex-girlfriend). If you guys are just friends, you won't get jealous and ask yourself, do you think of your girlfriends all the time even if they are so close with you? I bet you don't!
2007-07-08 06:03:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want someone to feel for you what he feels for her. Human nature. If his ex is your friend, stay away. Otherwise, you are not much of a friend.
2007-07-08 06:04:35 · answer #5 · answered by nurse ratchet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its just infatuation, but I would say you like him in the "I wanna get together" kind of way. You can't possibly love him yet from what I am getting from your post.
2007-07-08 06:03:50 · answer #6 · answered by ArachnidDemon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
much as you like him better remain friends.think about your boyfriend and be fair.
2007-07-08 06:47:38 · answer #7 · answered by honey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you still want him if you had him or do you want him because you dont?
2007-07-08 06:05:37 · answer #8 · answered by j_collinsgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you want it all...greedy
2007-07-08 06:02:32 · answer #9 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋