im in love with a 22 year old wemon who works at the vans shoe store in the inland center mall,
her husband is in the military and she has a child,iom 16 years old,should i still keep dating her with her?
2007-07-07 21:03:46 · 39 answers · asked by pimp status 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I know that you have to be out of your mind!!!!! She is not available LEAVE HER ALONE. Think about it, if you where serving our country would you want someone messing with your wife. Besides think about it this way. Do you really think that she would be true to you if she is already married and screwing around on her husband. and am I reading this right you are just 16. Can you say Jail Bait. I hope that she gets caught and put in jail if that is the case. Her husband does not deserve someone as trashy as she is. Dump her and fast.
2007-07-15 11:42:17 · answer #1 · answered by thismomisgreat 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that you should stop dating her and only for one reason. She can get into really big trouble with the law because according to the law you are not old enough to be involved with her. It's called statutory rape if you have a sexual relationship with her. Even if you willingly had sex with her, it is still rape in the eyes of the law! She could go to jail, lose her child and cause her military husband much grief and embarrassment. And imagine how disappointed your family would be if they found this out?
I know this sounds harsh, but you should consider that maybe she is just looking for some one to have sex with while her husband is away...some one who she knows will keep quiet about it - like you.
Also, you have to realize that there is a child and a husband involved. She is married and that is a very special and important bond that no one should come between or break. You are helping her break her vows to her husband and that is very wrong.
It is very painful to a grown man to know that the woman he loved, married and had a child with has been giving herself up to another man. If he finds out, their relationship will be ruined and you don't even know what impact their divorce could have on their child.
You have to realize that the older you get the more implications the decisions you make have on everybodys life. You can't be selfish and assist her with ruining her life just because you are in love with her. You will, in fact, be hurting her by staying with her.
Find a cute girl your own age and stay out of trouble!
2007-07-07 21:23:12 · answer #2 · answered by MelT 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Does the 22 year old woman even know you exist? Leave married woman alone or you will meet up with a husband one day.
2007-07-13 06:39:11 · answer #3 · answered by Sean R 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if the kid is old enough to talk, then it's too much of a risk, unless you are stronger and more technical than a soldier in the military which I'm guessing not. Now, if the kid doesn't see you around and the girl does like to get down with you then keep doing it. You're 16 years old and you're doing a 22 year old. You're living the dream of most kids your age. But do me (or rather yourself) a favor. Don't call it "dating".
PS
Do buy a bunch of pairs of shoes from her for cheaper and sell them on ebay. Just kidding... but really.
2007-07-07 21:10:04 · answer #4 · answered by Apostoli 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
First I find it disturbing you listed so much info online about where specificaly she works - not nice. You want hubby to find it online and clean both your clocks? Luckily, for you both he is watching out for his and his units @** for roadside bombs in Iraq.
Anyways she is too old for you. If she were a man &you a 16 yr old girl or she was a teacher not selling shoes, she'd be in jail for dating you.
You and she are a mess and need to get yourselves together before dating or bedding anyone. Your 16 go to school -daily, join sports/extracurricular activities, get a job, a car, and college brochures, slong with a teenage girlfriend like every other teen. not a pre made family add water!!!!!!
2007-07-15 16:06:20 · answer #5 · answered by Woman in Red 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have two questions. 1) Why are you seeing a married woman and 2) Why is she messing around with a 16 year old? This woman is cheating on her husband while he is serving our country? She has no conscience. She will cheat on you just like she is cheating on him. Dump her an don't look back.
2007-07-15 17:30:18 · answer #6 · answered by icejan 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
One, she is a child molester.
Two, you are not in love it sounds more like you are infatuated, and I'm not just saying that because you are young.
Three, I think she is sick in the head for dating a 16 year old kid. I mean is she that desperate and lonely.
Four, you are jeopardizing her freedom, custody of her child, and not to mention her marriage, by giving so much detail on the INTERNET, are you nuts. That alone tells me that you are young.
2007-07-15 10:25:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hello!!! Husband in the Military. They train those people how to kill in so many ways and some that cannot be detected. Do you feel good about being a homewrecker? This is a BAD BAD BAD idea.
2007-07-13 17:21:10 · answer #8 · answered by M 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok, you should stop seeing her if she still has a husband because it can cause majors problems for all of you and if she divorced her husband then stay with her and show her you care about cuz if she divorced her husband it obviosly means she had enough of him and is lookin for a new man to love her and her 16 yr. old son but i say stay with her if she divorced her husband but u should do what your heart tells u to do. Listen to your heart it will guide you in the long run.
2007-07-15 17:18:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't you think you are to young?
she is married
there is a child involved
you are in school
husband isn't exactly out of the picture
why put yourself through that kind of stress at your age
and if this woman can cheat on her husband what will she do to you,
you are a big boy take a second or two and think
2007-07-14 09:22:49 · answer #10 · answered by karibbean beauty 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋