I my husband works a lot, he works at a warehouse as a driver and is out a lot. I have a feeling that he might be cheating but I want to catch him. Just now I was talking to him and asked him if he had anything to eat before he got home, he said yes , pizza at lancaster rd. I found a reciept laying on the floor next to the couch with yesterdays date for pizza at the mall. I asked him again and he smiled and said lancaster, i asked ..are u sure? he sas why? i say because i found a receipt. he then explains he didnt want to say at the mall because i wouldve gotten mad which isnt true, i never complain about anything. Now I am more suspicious and dont know what to do...help please.. any opinions?
2007-07-07 20:45:26 · 9 answers · asked by cruz o 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
for my bday which was last month he didnt get me anything, and when he came home he had a digital camera i had been asking for, maybe he felt guilty? i am definitely going to look for clues now.
2007-07-07 21:05:26 · update #1
place a hidden cam in his truck so he can find it the real thing is a recorder so he cant find it under the dash board in my opion he cant deny his own voive or her.s on tape. in my opion?
2007-07-07 20:50:23 · answer #1 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never been wrong when I have that 'gut feeling'. It's just another one of those things that you KNOW. We women were equipped with the ability to somehow know when thing just aren't right, no matter who it's with; Our children, families, or husbands. Go with your strongest gut feeling, that natural instinct that we have. Then approach him with it straight out. If he is, and only you will know, things will either get better because he is now caught and will stop, or things will get worse, because he is now caught and he will try harder to hide it; Thus making more mistakes and slipping with lies. I hope it's nothing, just PMS or something, and wish you all the luck in the world. It's a hard thing to go through. Good Luck.
2007-07-08 03:55:43 · answer #2 · answered by Nina70 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it does start out with little lies.... but then again men lie about the stupidest things because they think we will react badly. I would keep an eye on him but don't jump to any conclusions yet. Call him at random times of the day to see what he is up to and gauge his reaction to your call. He might get the idea that you are on to him (IF he is cheating) and stop whatever inappropriate thing he is doing. Good luck!
2007-07-08 03:51:51 · answer #3 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this the only thing you have to go on? He could be telling the truth. What about his other actions... is he avoiding you, acting guilty etc. Don't turn your world upside down for nothing.
2007-07-08 03:52:08 · answer #4 · answered by buttercup26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman's intuition is her strongest and best value, in my opinion if you suspect than he probably is! good luck and for your sake I hope he isn't!
2007-07-08 03:52:36 · answer #5 · answered by Kylz A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your feel like he is cheating then he probably is. Figure out a way to spy on him.
2007-07-08 03:51:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your gut-
confront with out anger
and work through this.
2007-07-08 03:49:12 · answer #7 · answered by Jules 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From your desciption, this situation isn't something that would make me thing he's cheating.
2007-07-08 03:51:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess you have to do some investigation about that if your in doubt with what your husband told you.. Follow him secretly where he go..
2007-07-08 03:50:57 · answer #9 · answered by ○♫mhytzhe○♫ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋