my wife is constantly angry anymore. sex is almost history. what the hell is the problem?

Answer 1

Sounds like something you and your wife need to discuss. What is she angry about? Have you sat down and really talked with her, is she feeling ok, are you gone a lot?

If you don't talk about it with her it can't be resolved, you then get upset and bitter because she is angry, she feels you don't care, it is a vicious circle, which might have been resolved by communication.

Try it, it can't hurt.

Answer 2

Have you genuinely gone to your wife and told her this ? If you haven't I suggest you get with her and sit down together and discuss the matter. Life without sex is lifeless most true if your married. I have experienced this in my first marriage and it caused a divorce. So if you love your wife and want a life long marriage you better do all you can. You know the reasons why the sex is almost dead , if it can get resolved don't let anything stand in your way do it. I know how your wife feels, so I know those walls are up . Maybe she don't feel appreciated for who she is, what she Does , and mainly how she feels. If a women feels adequate she will be adequate. I think most men are all so consumed with their own feelings of being inadequates they don't think about there partner's feelings of inadequates.

Answer 3

oh That's no good, Have you asked her what is wrong? I suggest you both sit down and get everything out in the open, There is obviously a problem between the two of you..Communication is the key factor to a happy relationship

Good Luck ... Sex will come later so do not whinge about it to her.. it's probably the last thing she wants to hear..Sort your lives out first...

Answer 4

Honey? Is that you????? Ha Ha Ha.... I am sure my husband feels the same way sometimes. So I am going to speculate what your wifes deal is by what my deal is.... I could be wrong so don't quote me or anything! I get pissed at my husband for dumb reasons... but its usually not about the towel on the floor even though that is what i am screaming about.... its usually something deeper like I wish he would focus on me more or be more intimate with me instead of being more like my friend. And when I don't feel like having sex it's usually because of the deeper issues. There's something she wants from you or wishes you'd change that she is not telling you... or she is and you are not listening. But like I said.... I could be wrong! Good luck.

Answer 5

You are asking people on yahoo answers about a woman you live with and sleep with every night--that is the first problem. Who here can go inside her mind and answer that for you, you are your best advocate at this time, turn off the computer and get to work...ok?

Answer 6

If you aren't mistreating her - and she's over 35, it could be a hormone problem. Encourage her to go to the gynecologist for testing.

Answer 7

Maybe it is. How do you speak to her? How do you treat her? Men are so quick to jump to think something is wrong with us but only things are wrong with us for a reason not just for nothing! Something had to change, what was it? I am sure you know!

Answer 8

DID U EVER THINK ABOUT HERRRRRRRRRRRRR MAYBE SHE DOESNT FEEL BEAUTIFULL ANYMORE. Did u ever think of that 1 maybe because U've been watching porn on ur desktop & havent shown any affection to her that she feels like u dont love her cuz she isn't as beautifull as when u met. Y dont u make her dinner & make her feel beautifull again.

Answer 9

could her being angry have anything to do with her not getting sex? if i never got it, i would be angry all the time, too!!

we dont know everything here in yahoo land, as you know. we dont know why she is angry. tell us more

Answer 10

Have you asked your wife? she is the only one who can answer your Question!