Feels like commiting SUICIDE...?

Question

I m 21.All my friends are tall and smart.They have good personalities.They always make me feel insulted.They even say that it wont be possible for me to get a good match who will marry mee.All my family members like parents, cousins and my sis and bro have good heights and everybody make fun of mine...
I m neither good in studies nor sports not even i know something different.It seems as if i m simply wasting my parent's money.They are always very worried about me
what should i do..??sometimes feel like killing self
i am 5" (30,26,32)

Answer 1

Please don't kill yourself, It's so not worth it.

1. it's an eternal sin

2. there is nothing.

3. you don't want to put your friends and family thru that...


if you feel as though you really want to do that, please click on this link and talk to these people. they are available 24/7


http://psychcentral.com/helpme.htm

or you can call this number


1-800-273-TALK (8255)


may god bless you and give you the eternal strength to carry on.

Answer 2

the first thing i would like to say to you i know how you feel i once felt like you only i was a little older, but life is what you make of it, try going out doing something different, if your family is stopping you tell them how you feel and if they want to make you happy and to make you stop feeling the way you do well you need time with your friends, there are people out there worse of then you, if they can find a way to be happy even though they know they dont have a home or family or food they still have a smile on there face, life is what you make of it, if your bored try something new something different you wouldnt usually do. You will get out of it and if you dont go see someone tell them how you feel if you cant do it on your own someone will help you through, dont go making stupid decisions because life is precious and there are people that arent givin a chance to live and people dying who want to live and then there are people who dont want to because there having a bad moment and wont talk to anyone.

Answer 3

well i will tell you i have been there and contemplated suicide very seriously before. i am thankful that something always came up and i never went through with it. although you might not be like your friends or family, i'm sure there is something that you excel at even if you're not fully aware of it yet. your 21 and that is still very young. your parents are worried about you because they love you and i doubt they feel as if your wasting their money. i would talk to someone about your concerns, like a councilor or a close friend, and hopefully they can help you see the positives about you. but please dont do anything to harm yourself, you mean the world to someone and would devistate them if anything happened to you.

Answer 4

Actually human talents distribute normally meaning most people are too good for nothing:) like you and me.
There is a nice line.....yeh mere khwabon ki duniya nahi sahi lekin..ab aa gaya hoon tu do din kayam [stay] karta chalon :)
So do not be stupid and a football of other peoples opinion.
Its a huge world out there with plenty of exciting possibilities work and avoid long faced morons.
and btw..its your borthright to waste your parents money...just be kind to them and get over these stupid thought.Find a passion to live....something which makes you feel alive....for me it is reading...looking at little things like a raindrop:)
you find yours......
Be happy little one....never despair...who knows what it is you have yet to do.
Love so much that hate has no place nor expectation for returns

Answer 5

Hey babe, you kill yourself, end of game. You only can learn from mistakes. Give it go and let some man into your life. You seem to accept the **** from others, maybe that is comiong through your personallity. Be self and be proud of it and some guy will madly, totally and beautifully fall in love with you. When?? I do not know, but if your dead it makes it impossible for him to fall in love. Besides 98% of old people are not good looking, but they still stay and fall in love

Answer 6

Never let other people tell u how u should feel about yourself. Do things for yourself that u like, and meet others who do them and enjoy those things with them. It will lead to relationships with both guys and gals. Im 6'5" and have dated shorter girls than u. It was fine. Honestly. Do your legs reach the ground? Do they? Then it works for me. As far as your measurements it's all in how well you take care of yourself. And that's up to you. It feels good too. Hope this helps ok! Good luck hon! mwah!

Answer 7

I have multiply injuries to different parts of my body. I am 6'3"
and 250 lbs. I am in great pain all the time and I feel like dieing most of the time, but I still get up each morning knowing how bad the pain will be and I go to work. Try to see it from my eyes.

Answer 8

I am 5 feet 2 1/2 inches. I am short and I do feel your pain. But
just know that you are here for a reason. DO let others put you down. Have faith in yourself.

Answer 9

No ,don't kill yourself! Go and join the Nuns at the convents.you need to have your faith restored in you.do not let others dictate what you should look like,you have to know that life is just like a busy market place where everybody come ,buy and go(die).so what is it ,you are rushing back to the spirit world to do?

Answer 10

to me it sounds like youre going through a tough time. even when you see all of these good qualities in these other people remember they also have bad qualities. some of the richest, most beautiful, tallest etc. people have more problems than we can even think of! talk to a therapist or someone who will listen to you and know what youre going through, they will be able to help you.