no on e in the WORLD thinks that i am responsible enough. granted, i can be lazy and sloppy but I KNOW that when u are a mom, there is no time for that! I know this and i'm willing to change! I'm 29. I have worked at a day care, i've babysat since i was 12. i have a younger bro and sis and have been around kids all my life. I spent over a year practically raising my friends baby when she was depressed and she slept all the time. kids love me and i did really good with her!. I want to have a baby so bad. my soon to be husband wants one too i think and he says i'll be a great mom but i think deep down he worries about it too. I don't want to hear people saying i just need to get off of my *** and clean the house, i've done that. what i want are answers from people who have been through this and made it out ok on the other side. thanks :)
2007-07-05 08:10:23 · 12 answers · asked by the1princessh 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Oh please...you think your the only lazy person that wants a baby. Just look at all the people out there that have no place in having a baby. For example to women abusing the welfare system, women giving their children away etc. If you want a baby and want to live messy it doesnt matter. As long as you take care of you, your husband, and your child a few piles of clothes on the floor does not matter. Its instinct sweety trust me lazy does not qualify you as a potential bad mom. Dont let anyone tell you any different.
2007-07-05 08:40:37 · answer #1 · answered by All Smiles 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You can have all the children you want (and can comfortably provide for) just do yourselves this small favor first: give yourselves a couple of years (maybe three) together as a married couple before you bring the kids into the mix. What's this time for? Enjoying each other, learning how your partner copes with stress and crises of all sorts, and stengthening the foundation on which you're going to build your family. Then when the kids do come, you're ready and emotionally more stable as a couple. Even a "blessed event" is traumatic...give yourselves some prep time.
2007-07-05 08:20:28 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you want to have a baby make sure both your husband to be and yourself are ready and both prepared to make such a big commitment. Don't let other people influence the desion that is only yours and your husbands to make. However, do take on board what they say about tidyness as you can't afford to be untidy when there is a baby around. I am sure that when you do have your baby that you will be tidy. As you are willing to change and be tidy and you are worried about this I think you will make a fantastic mum!
Good Luck
Emma
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2007-07-05 08:20:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
women that have kids grow into motherhood,the mommy sense kick in the day the baby is born,if you think that you will be a good mommy than give it a try,but you have to clean up your act.once a baby is born it's no more time for you.are you willing to give this child security,love,nutriment,keep him/her clean,stability,care and comfort.if you feel you can do all of the things listed than you are on the right track.Be Careful What you Ask For!
2007-07-05 09:55:21 · answer #4 · answered by nickkie s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-05 15:39:09 · answer #5 · answered by kantola 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and your husband want to commit to a lifetime of responsibly raising a child, your lifestyle shouldn't be the main issue. Commitment to the child is the issue. Never mind what others outside your family unit have to say about you.
2007-07-05 08:17:36 · answer #6 · answered by Nora Explora 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you've said I think you'll be a great mom! Seriously. I can be soo lazy sometimes but when it comes to my motherless baby chinchillas I know that I have to get off my butt and hand feed them! You should trust your husband as he trusts you. have a baby! once you have you'll be able to show everyone what a good mom you've been! *warning* the first child is the hardest to mother usually :D
2007-07-05 08:15:46 · answer #7 · answered by Woman 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You grow into motherhood. Nobody knows how until after they've had the baby. Don't worry about it. You will "learn on the job". It's in your genes. Being a good mother is about carry, not about the right way or wrong way.
2007-07-05 08:13:02 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is something you should really ask your partner about and find out his real feelings on the subject. Then it should be between you and him. If you both decide to have a baby, then it does not matter what anybody else thinks.
2007-07-05 08:14:11 · answer #9 · answered by hotchic 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey i have no expertise in this but it sounds like you really like kids and so just have one its your life i know it will be harder than that but you u want one really bad just tell every one that is saying that stuff and tell them that your trying even though they may not like it sorry if this is no help as i said no experties.
dsw
2007-07-05 08:16:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋