We've had some issues and decided Tuesday that we would take some time to decide where we want our relationship to go. Wednesday I wanted to be friends but still hang out and stuff. If things get better & he would want to try again then I would be all for it. Today all I can think about it how much I want to be with him and would totally regret not trying to work it out. I'm unsure about what he wants. I'm kinda thinking that he might want to work things out but I could be wrong. He's hard to read.
But I've never met anyone else that has as much in common with me and is so much like what I've always wanted. I don't want to be with anyone but him.
How can I get him to understand how much I want to be with him?
2007-07-05 08:01:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly. What I've found to REALLY REALLY help through experience is communication. It's a wonderful thing. All those questions you posted up on here, ask him. You will feel so much better and have so much less stress if you find out exactly what's going on in his head. And by talking, you may find out EXACTLY what you want as well. TALK TALK TALK!
2007-07-05 08:05:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh geee your age sure would help.All I can say is if Wed. all u wanted was to hang out and be friends then u miss him not because u love him. No matter what u do in life or who u have steady contact with u will miss if u don't see them for awhile. Some more then others.This seperation probably happen for a reason.So take this time to really figure out what u want.Then if u still want to be with him u should call him and first find out how he feels.Then go from there.Good luck
2007-07-05 15:10:38 · answer #2 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. Its hard to keep the fire burning. I wouldnt doubt he doesnt love or care for you, but he prob also wants to make up for the time he missed hanging out with his friends. Take that time to also hang out with yours. I dont believe there is a way to prove your love to someone, they just know if you do. Just sit down and explain that you know his past, but tell him how you are feeling. Things never get resolved without communication. Good luck!
2007-07-05 15:07:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about you tell him this? Does he know how you truly feel? Express to him that you want to be with him, and show him in various ways. That's all you can do. The rest is up to him, you know what I mean? You can put your heart out there, but he might not want it, so be prepared for that. Hope everything goes well with you two!
2007-07-05 15:10:57 · answer #4 · answered by Melissa G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you need some more time to talk this through. The big thing is developing honest means of communicating that produces compromise and understanding, and not just perpetuates the fighting.
2007-07-05 15:04:30 · answer #5 · answered by Steve C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u know love is it confusing dear cuz luv is blind...some people are hard to read because they arent open and commnuicative you should talk more with him and by the way even if you stay with a pers6n 10 years you still dont know him or her enough!good luck!
2007-07-05 15:07:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because love is a feeling. Instead we use our head when it comes to love. Over analyzing and over thinking kill our love. Just feel. And non of those "i feel like...because..." then it's not love, it's our brain talking again. Love has no reason, it just is. Our heart doesn't think, our brain does.
2007-07-05 15:15:29 · answer #7 · answered by Matahari 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is not confusing, is people who are very complex. Just make sure you date someone for long time before you fall for him.
2007-07-05 15:09:01 · answer #8 · answered by ism 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont smother him. I dont know him or you but men dont really like all the emotional stuff about girls. Be fun around him not emotional
2007-07-05 15:05:10 · answer #9 · answered by lovepinkbeloved 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show him what you just typed... if you can tell complete strangers, why not the guy that you love?
2007-07-05 15:05:02 · answer #10 · answered by Goose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋