Well, the only way i can contact her is thru email.Ok here is the Story.I saw her during my freshmans orientation.She signed her name on my bingo chart we played as a group.So now i have my college email set up and i am able search students by thier names.So i have her email.I hope that it is her and no one else with the same name.Of course i can wait till school starts and meet her.But since there is a way to contact her now. . . i wanna use it. So what do i do? Shall i write a simple email. . .. like - Hey this is Shan.We met during orientation.I was the one wearing a shirt and tie, all dressed up.Yeah, my excuse is that i just got back from work.Anyways i just wanted say Hi ' to you and if you were curious how i got your email . . i just used the address book. . . .what do you think ??? As long as i don't sound weird or crazy . .and FYI . .she is Hot and i am a pretty good looking guy too ( not that i wanna sound cocky)
2007-07-05 09:02:28 · 11 answers · asked by The_man82 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok thanks for all of your answers. . .i think i am going to email her. . the thing about waiting for school to start can be hard as she is taking a different major and the times and classes and sometimes even the campus is different so this email thing is really bugging me to do it ..
2007-07-05 09:17:47 · update #1
ok i just emailed her . . . i made it simple . .
Hey . .
This is Shan from Orientation.I was the one wearing a shirt and tie, all dressed up.Yeah, my excuse is that i just got back from work.Anyways i just wanted say Hi and get to know you a little better.Have you signed up for your classes yet?
Shan
What do you think ?
2007-07-05 09:36:01 · update #2
Shan ... I hope you get this before you email her. I say by all means say "hi" .. life is short and you'll never know unless you try. However, I would DEFINITELY tell her who you are, where you met, and how you got her email. Otherwise you may come off like a 'stalker'! The guys who said not to mention any of that are wrong. I am a bit older and a woman and I can tell you that I'd be flattered if a guy went to that trouble to find me ... but he better explain it or I'd be worried (no matter how hot he is!) =)
If she's not attached and is interested she'll respond back - believe me. If she doesn't ... don't take hard ... she most likely has someone in her life already. If so, ya never know .. they may break up and she may remember the trouble you went to to meet her and she may seek you out the exact same way! Life is funny like that! Besides, if you are a 'hottie' you got nothing to worry about! Just treat her right if it works out!
Best of luck to you and I admire your willingness to go after what you want. That is the key to success! =)
2007-07-05 09:31:25 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No do not tell her how you guys met, or how you got her email, simply tell her this is shan, then go on about something, but if she remembers you, then she had an interest.
But ask her when she starts her classes, did she have fun that day you guys met on whatever you guys did, ask her what she is up to lately!
2007-07-05 16:07:15 · answer #2 · answered by Mail me for my myspace!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it! Just be yourself and everything will fall into place. Sounds like she likes u 2 if she signed her name on there, maybe she did that on purpose??? Good luck hope everything works out!!
2007-07-05 16:10:21 · answer #3 · answered by Happy Gurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont explain how you got her email. Tell her about the Bingo game and if she remembers you and wants to go out sometime.
Leave it at that and dont describe or sell yourself, you'll sound pitiful.
2007-07-05 16:07:08 · answer #4 · answered by Mergler 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're on the right track. And ask her some questions about where she lives, major, what dorm will she be in, her family, what she liked/disliked about orientation, etc. She will know why you are asking chatting.
When she writes back, you will know she's interested.
2007-07-05 16:07:05 · answer #5 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
any girl would be flattered if u went to the trouble to get their email. just tell her that you wanna hang out and ur just looking to get to know some people. offer to buy her some coffee or something casual. start slow. good luck! tell me how it goes!
2007-07-05 16:11:35 · answer #6 · answered by hiya_munchies18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should definitely go for it! girls love a guy with confidence and you have it! no girl can say no to a hott guy and definitely not a hott guy with confidence. you're simply emailing her and keeping in touch. it shows that you care enough or that you're interested enough about her! thats really good! good luck with that!
2007-07-05 16:06:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should wait till school starts to talk to her
2007-07-05 16:07:04 · answer #8 · answered by vmartinez_07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go with what you wrote sounds good enough.
2007-07-05 16:06:52 · answer #9 · answered by eld13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her in person tell her who you are then start from there
2007-07-05 16:07:04 · answer #10 · answered by @NGEL B@BY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋