I'm afraid he'll just go get physical with another girl if I do confront him.
2007-07-05 08:52:36 · 19 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is actually a good test for him. If you cut him off, see if he will look elsewhere. If he cheats, drop him. If he remains faithful, then he loves you.
2007-07-05 08:57:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have no guarantee that he isn't already getting physical with another girl. If he is capable of or you suspect that he will be comfortable with "running two trains on the same track" , then you need to stop being physical with him anyway.
He needs a wife-- not a girlfriend, if he wants to have sex. You do not really have to tell him. Just don't give him any more sex. He will then, have to seriously, evaluate his own intentions for the future of your relationship.
2007-07-05 09:03:39 · answer #2 · answered by Jess4rsake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd have to say it's too late...not to mention your screen name is already telling me that it's your fault for letting it get this far in the first place. He probably thinks you're just in it for the sex as well...but if you really do love him, tell him that. Say that you don't want it to be *just* physical, because for you love is more than getting laid or having sex. If he leaves, he's not worth having around anyway. Next time, try starting off SLOW.
2007-07-05 09:01:47 · answer #3 · answered by Brommy A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that's what makes him stay, then maybe you should let him go. You can't feel secure in a relationship that will end if you stop getting physical with him. Find someone who'll respect you and keep his hands to himself.
2007-07-05 08:59:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
start out like you can hold out is what I say! You can't just cut the man off after he's used to getting it. You going to be a born again virgin or something? You punishing him for being a bad boy? What?
2007-07-05 08:57:22 · answer #5 · answered by i know it all! 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Geez, if your guy would just go with another girl like that, he is hardly worth you being his girl. If he truly cared about you, he would respect the way you felt about this and not just up and go elsewhere.
2007-07-05 08:56:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should never feel afraid to tell your boyfriend how you feel. If he trully cares for you, he will understand. If he decides to cheat on you then you know he doesnt deserve to be with you. You need to be with someone who respects you. Best wishes!
2007-07-05 08:58:28 · answer #7 · answered by heart2heart 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So, you're only having sex with him to keep him happy, not because you want to? You like being that kind of person who is used like that?
Get a spine, get a life. If you can't talk to him, then why are you with him?
2007-07-05 08:55:49 · answer #8 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay if that is what your worried about then you need to dumb him! A relationship without trust is a messed up one! Good luck and I hope you find someone MUCH better!!
2007-07-05 08:55:43 · answer #9 · answered by Adriane 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well your screen name might make him wonder some first of all. You really project yourself in that way right from the start.
2007-07-05 08:55:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋