Well I have been talking to this guy for 2 weeks now and he really wants to meet me and I want to meet him. Should I be scared or should I stop worrying so much. We are bolth 21 and we bolth have 1 year old tottlers that are with us full time, so does that make him a good guy? Should I take the chance and go out on a night with him? There is a Hotel invoved and he nows I dont want to do anything, but is he going to do somthing that I dont want him to do or try anyways?
2007-07-05 09:42:46 · 13 answers · asked by Amy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you want to meet him, meet in a PUBLIC PLACE. You can meet privately once you know him a little better.
2007-07-05 09:45:47 · answer #1 · answered by abbyful 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well two weeks a little too soon but if it was me in the same situation I would take the chance and go for it. Maybe he really likes you! If he takes care of his kid full time like you do then I'm sure hes a great father and a nice guy all around. The hotel thats involved could be for two reasons. It could be that he's going to try something with you anyway to see how far he can get, or it could just be he wants to set up a nice little getaway for the two of you since you both take care of kids full time. I have a son of my own that I take care of full time and in some cases I would love to just rent a hotel and have some alone quality time with another girl. I would just take a chance, you never know something good may come out of this. Even if something good doesn't come out of the situation, at least you can say you tried and move on.
2007-07-05 16:49:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stereotypically if he has a hotel yes. However i dont think he will, for one does he live a ways away from you. If so the hotel is for him to stay at so he doesnt have to come up then drive back when your done meeting. Having toddlers doesnt nessacarily make him a good guy but it looks good on paper.
I'd go out with him, just keep in mind you let what happens, happen. I just think your nervous and over analyzing everything.
i see everyone else jumpin at the fact that your meeting him at the hotel or going there with him which i dont think is the case. If it is have him meet you else where first to be safe
2007-07-05 16:48:02 · answer #3 · answered by sugrdady03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, you have been talking to this guy for only 2 weeks. you are both 21, and you both have a 1 year old. sounds like he is trying to lure you to him. same age, same age kid. get it? he can say any thing he wants to on the net, it is only typed words. it could be a young kid, a perverted man with bad intentions, even a woman with the wrong intentions. would you really risk your life, and make your child motherless to meet some guy from the internet that you have only talked to for 2 weeks? think about how your child would feel.. and a hotel? oh, what convience. and you yourself say he is going to try to do something that you dont want to do. im not trying to be mean, just trying to make you understand. i got a weird lump in my stomache when i read your question. my id? it says my name is della. my profile says im a 36 year old woman, with a 9 year old son. i could be lying about that. and no one would ever know. all my info is the truth, but you get my point? please think of your child before going to meet this guy.
2007-07-05 16:56:07 · answer #4 · answered by della 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too risky!! meet in a public place or with friends for the first time. you don't want to end up raped or murdered. take it slow, very slow, until you have a better feel for this guy and the situation.
do not go to the hotel! its asking for trouble.
2007-07-05 16:47:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A hotel is not the best place for a first date, unless there are separate rooms. A restaurant or other public place works best.
2007-07-05 16:46:33 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you nutz? you say hotel to a man and he automatically thinks "whooowho sex" most men are one big walking and talking penis.you want to get together and really find out about this man,meet him someplace very public and make sure someone knows where you are going and whom with.good luck and use a condum
2007-07-05 16:50:42 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then don't go. You don't know him and if he is already saying that he is going to do something that you don't want him to do it's not a good sign. I would start slow...no hotel.
2007-07-05 16:49:21 · answer #8 · answered by Workinmamma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do, make sure its in a well populated place, like the mall or somewhere he cannot just grab you. I would also leave the kid with a sitter.
NO HOTEL!!!!!!!!
2007-07-05 16:47:49 · answer #9 · answered by mable3691214 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll regret it. He could be lying. He might be some perverted creepy 40 year old who only wants ex and could kill you after. I wouldn't do it, Anything could happen.
2007-07-05 16:47:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋