I'm 22 years old. I consider myself at least average as far as physically attractive. I'm a big woman, but not disgustingly so. I'm a really nice, giving person. I am very family oriented. I have a fair amount friends, most of whom are cousins but also others. I have lots a of male friends (one with whom I'm convinced I'm in love, but that's neither here nor there because nobody really knows). I recently graduated from a fairly prestigious university. I'm a church girl, very involved. I am about to be a registered nurse, making fairly decent money for a 22 year old. I drive a nice car. I don't understand why I'm not approached more, why the guys I like don't seem to be interested in me. I don't go to clubs and bars (and I understand that many people meet men in those places), but that's because I just don't like the scene. Can anyone help me out with this, based on this limited information?
2007-07-05 10:12:53 · 5 answers · asked by She's all that 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I actually don't feel like I'm looking. It usually only crosses my mind when I have nothing to do and my mind starts wandering. When I'm out and about, I am not looking at everybody sizing them up as potential candidates. I don't go out everytime I leave my house in hopes of finding a man. Now I do find myself thinking about the possibilities with that friend, but even though I haven't eluded to the fact that I have feelings for him, he doesn't seem to be slightly interested.
2007-07-05 10:28:19 · update #1
just relaxe and enjoy life and something will come up. your 22 years old with your whole life a head of you relaxe and let the unexpected come to you, have fun and keep yourself busy and go out and have fun or try out new hobbies with new people your bond to find someone.
2007-07-05 10:26:33 · answer #1 · answered by Ribsbroken 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're in a situation I used to be in =) but the thing is, you're looking. I was looking all of the time everywhere I went, no matter who I was hanging out with. If you stop looking and direct your attention to something else (like work) for example, that's when things happen. I met my boyfriend last June and I was DONE with men. I couldn't have cared less. And he and I met through my friends who saw him play in his band, and then "viola!" he and I are still together at this time =) and I can't imagine being without him. I've learned seriously that the more you worry about it and look the less of chance you'll have =( and it's not because of who you are =)
2007-07-05 17:18:32 · answer #2 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you're taking about. Been there. Done that. God will take care of you. As a matter of fact, He knows your limit and has a plan. (If I hadn't have failed a math course in college, I would've never met my husband.)
Have you ever read "I Kissed Dating Goodbye"? It's a great book. I would recommend it. I really got a lot out of it, and it taught me to just rely on God, and remember that He has a plan for me. Just like He has a plan for you. Don't give up. Have faith in God. He's not done with you yet.
2007-07-05 17:25:24 · answer #3 · answered by Second Hand Rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i felt the same way. but its really about STOP LOOKING! lol. trust me it'll come to you when you least expected it. thats what happened to me :)
2007-07-05 17:17:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can help you with one sentence !!! WATCH what You ask for You just might Get it !!!!!!!!!!! BE AGRESSIVE You Deserve it LIFE is VERY SHORT !!!
2007-07-05 17:21:37 · answer #5 · answered by wildman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋