ok today my ex boyfriend called me and asked me if i wanted to have sex with him.i told him no because im still hurt because of what he did.when we broke up he didint say it nice or nothing he just called and said "its over you damn rich *****!" and i dont no y he said that! so i asked him and he said hej ust didint wanna be wit me no more.and now he calls and ims me and says he still loves me and stuff and i dont no wat to do i dont want nothign to do with him n e more!! how do i tell him to leave me a lone?
2007-07-05 09:57:23 · 44 answers · asked by Chri$tineeeee. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just tell him that he hurt you, and no matter what he says its not going to change your mind, so just tell him to stop calling you and give it up.....
2007-07-05 10:02:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you already know the answer to that question. You seem like a strong woman considering that you know you don't want to be with him anymore. I have had many friends who go back to jerks that treat them like crap and there excuse is usually "but he still loves me". You're a strong INDEPENDENT woman and don't need him anymore and you need to tell him that. Let him no he lost out on a great woman and he will not get the chance to be with you again. No man should ever speak to a woman the way you said he spoke to you... even out of anger, its just wrong. He needs to understand it was his decision to break up with you. So his feelings are no concern to you because your feelings were no concern to him when he decided to end the relationship on very bad terms.
2007-07-05 10:07:54 · answer #2 · answered by Mark 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well don't answer the text messages or calls. When you see him and have to talk to him tell him NO you are not interested and if that does not work granted this may be a lil embarrassing but cause a scene, "I said NO, I don't want to get back with MAN that cheated/Hurt me like you did.. I am sure that he will leave you alone and it may make him think before he does it to someone else!
2007-07-05 10:02:27 · answer #3 · answered by Jules 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Easy -
Your phone rings, you receive a Text Message, you say hello - LEAVE ME ALONE.
If I wasn't good enough for you then, I am not willing to change, I like who I am, so grow up and leave me alone.
Then do not reply to any IM's, Text Messages or phone calls, if he doesn't get the picture he is a bigger idiot than you thought.
Take care of yourself by selecting someone who will treat you right, not someone who would call up just for sex, after insulting you!
Best of luck
2007-07-05 10:02:43 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ ♥Be Happi♥ ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to tell him anything. You owe him nothing.
When he calls back(trust me he will call back) don't answer the call. Actions speak louder than words. You see the truth of the matter is he was trying to see if you would be stupid enough to let him run over you and use you. Don't allow it at all. Don't talk to him anymore.
2007-07-05 10:10:06 · answer #5 · answered by femmefatale_2804 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the truth
honesty is the best policy
and if he doesnt meet up wit him and give him a good kick in the balls
im pretty sure he will leave u alone then or
get a really big muscle guy too pose as ur boyfriend and tell ur ex that he will be u up if he keeps bothering u
2007-07-05 10:02:50 · answer #6 · answered by go go gadget 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him exactly what you just wrote! Plain and simple. If you are still sensitive over the break up you might not want to do it in person. Or you might want to get one of your girlfriends to be with you when you tell him. Good luck.
2007-07-05 10:06:45 · answer #7 · answered by beafoxx1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is saying whatever he can to get in your pants. Tell him you had ur chance but, since I'm a such a B*tch, why don't you go try that with some other stupid girl cause I'm not the one!...
And then move on with your life for good :)
Stay Positive.
2007-07-05 10:02:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ugh...men!! The first thing is...don't give in. That's all he's looking for is to have control again. Be strong! Just tell him that you're flattered he's still interested but he blew it by ending things the way that he did. Just tell him you're interested in looking for a guy that will actually treat you right, not one just looking to use you. Good luck!
2007-07-05 10:01:35 · answer #9 · answered by luckygurl284 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop taking his calls, block his email address, don't let him into your house. Don't give him mixed messages--if you talk to him at all, he might take it as encouragement! If you have to speak to him, be firm and clear about your "no". Don't let yourself get dragged into fights or big conversations. Don't waste your time on this jerk!
2007-07-05 10:03:07 · answer #10 · answered by supercheesegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to him and tell him that he hurt you and you don't want to go through that again and it's over until he can prove him self worthy to be with you again but until then stay away from him
2007-07-05 10:05:26 · answer #11 · answered by Bianca S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋