Family & Relationships - 5 July 2007

We've been together for 4.5 years. Every now and then he had this outbursts of annoyance of being with me. Sometimes he wanted to have the total sigle life, and since he has a girlfriend, can't, therefor, frustrated. But did not dump me. Just treated me badly, which I endured thinking that all would pass and that he would eventually realize he really loves me. But as time passes, he complains more and more. Goes on and on about how he doesn't want to be tied down with me, still has more to do with his life, that he'll settle when he's done everything he wants to do. Has called me the 'hot potato', since we're both 25 and now he got 'stuck' with me. I know this is not working... but he recently got into an awful fight with his family. He says he feels dead inside. Things at his house are very bad. I want to help him, but since he doesn't quite love me, i don't know how. He suggested we rent together. But I don't feel the same anymore, all his bad comments have finally gotten to me.

2007-07-05 19:17:01 · 21 answers · asked by jade 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi Guys! I'm a big curvy girl, and am feeling like I could use some male company. Where can I meet guys who would like me? Is there an online community? A place in the real world?

Also... What should a big curvy girl say in a personal ad that would reel in appreciative men?

Thanks a bunch!

2007-07-05 19:14:17 · 3 answers · asked by superfish 3 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend gave me an ultimatum.

2007-07-05 19:11:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i did not cheat on her i found this girl long after we split, but i left cuz my ex treated me like crap so i left it her lose

2007-07-05 19:10:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Its bad enough that the sport encourages the pointless burning of fossil fuels for the trivial pursuit of momentary entertainment.

2007-07-05 19:08:39 · 6 answers · asked by somber_pieces 6 in Singles & Dating

My wife is going to leave me after 9 months of marriage. I am 27 she is 25, we both feel we rushed into marriage. I proposed to make her happy because I was kinda neutral on the whole marriage thing. Our relationship has really gone downhill since the marriage, both finacially and physically.We both wanted to go to counceling but we lost our insurance. I have gone through 3 jobs since we got married and am not making as much as I was. The hard part is we are each others best friend and I treat her like a princess and she nows that. I left for about 2 weeks and I missed her alot and she likewise. We are probably going to move out of our apartment seperately, ( we cant afford it ). She says that 95% of our problems are finacial. She says I'm the best guy in the world but I don't see why she is with me. I have gotten a second job but I think it might be to late. Am I a failure at marriage or just not ready?

2007-07-05 19:08:18 · 13 answers · asked by Cory 1 in Marriage & Divorce

In my experience i have found that some of the most succesful relationships are based on lies and deciet... since thats where most of them end up anyways, it's a logical place to start"

2007-07-05 19:07:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 17 years old and i dont have any friends at all in fact i have a lot of enemies. nearly everyone in my school hates me and im not being over dramatic cause they tell me they do, one day i went to sit at a table and a girl was there she didnt say anything to me then another girl came to sit down then this kid asked if he could sit with us and she said yea ur at the cool table minus one and looked at me. im nice to people and approach them in a kind way but there turned off by me and literally hate my guts i have like 100 people who have blocked me on aol nearly 65 people who wanna kill me lol, and when i do get friends it seems they are fake. like i go tro the gym every week and i made friends with this kid who seemed like me he was good lookin and had no friends either but he was a cool kid and nothing seemed wrong with him besids bein into fighting and star trek a little too much but anyway he turned his bk on me and the few kids ive talked to in school ended up makin fun of m

2007-07-05 19:07:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-05 19:05:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

So its been 3 1/2 years, we had a great relationship but we were young, she was 19, i was 21, so it didnt last, this is the only girl i "loved" , we tried to live together, of course it didnt work. So i decided once i got over her I was moving because it is in my best interest, and I have to beautiful and sunny phoenix, where a young handsome successful lad like myself has lots of fun and I like being single. I thought ive been over her for years, but I still think about her, in all different ways, even sexually still, wierd i know. I even sent her out here once after a couple years and it didnt do anything for me, but for some reason i still think about her, I think the cure for this is that I need to stop fooling around and try the girlfriend thing out for a while. my mind is just playin games with me, maybe establish a new relationship to get passed thinking about her, anybody agree?? or do you think its the opposite, maybe i still love her?? maybe i just miss how comfortable it was

2007-07-05 19:04:48 · 16 answers · asked by Will H 2 in Singles & Dating

MY BF AND I HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 5 YRS GOING ON 6. I WANTED TIME APART(A BREAK) TO MAKE HIM REALIZE THAT WE BOTH NEEDED TO CHANGE. HE QUIT TELLING ME HE LOVED ME, ACTING WEIRD WHEN HIS FRIENDS WERE AROUND AND NOT ANSWERING MY CALLS. I CRIED FOR A WEEK. THEN WE SPLIT. ITS BEEN THREE WEEKS AND I WENT OUT WITH FRIENDS AND HAD FUN. NOW I REALIZE THAT HE HAS CHANGED SO I WANTED HIM BACK AND NOW HE DOESNT WANT ME BACK. I HAVE BEEN CRYING FOREVER IT SEEMS, BC I KNOW NOW THAT HE IS THE ONE AND HE CAN BE AWESOME. I CANT SEEM TO LIKE NEONE ELSE NOT EVEN A LITTLE. HE SAID HE WANTS TIME APART TO HAVE HIS FUN NOW AND MAYBE EVENTUALLY WE WILL BE TOGETHER IN THE END AND HAVE A LIFE TOGETHER BUT HES NOT SURE. HE SAID TO GIVE HIM A FEW WEEKS BUT I DONT THINK I CAN HANDLE THAT I WANT TO BE WITH HIM NOW. WHAT DO I DO?

2007-07-05 19:04:43 · 23 answers · asked by Sexy E 1 in Marriage & Divorce

your home and your people to find a better future for them,

2007-07-05 19:00:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Cousin Marriage, a subject I've seen a lot of. What do you really know about cousins who have married each other and the effects it has/will have on their children? This is about the facts you know. If you do have a religous/political/personal opionpon(Can't spell that), please label it so.
Thanks,
Jeni J

2007-07-05 18:59:39 · 14 answers · asked by Jeni J 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-05 18:59:39 · 10 answers · asked by kinshuk g 1 in Singles & Dating

we're going to make out next week ,, how do i make out?

2007-07-05 18:57:50 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why do i attract men that are much older than me, and don't attract men near my age?

2007-07-05 18:51:51 · 4 answers · asked by A.P. 1 in Singles & Dating

Went out with a male colleague for dinner 7mo. ago. He practically inhaled his food. I felt offended. He's treating me on my birthday. Taking me out to dinner. I don't want him to have a repeat performance this time. I text him," let's do our best not to inhale our food. Looking forward to your company and dinner with you." This time, I really did not want to beat around the bush. He's Russian and I find him direct to the point. Probably something to do with their culture. Some people find him rude but I think that's the way he is. Now, if I tell you what I told him, how would you react. Straight shooters out there tell me your reaction..

2007-07-05 18:50:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was like wondering how I can improve myself on love relationships... and I decided to ask...

2007-07-05 18:48:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you lived in a shelter or on the streets or even with a friend or something.

2007-07-05 18:47:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok so I'm a little older (early 30's) and I have a child. Where are some good places to meet some more mature men and what are some good ways to "break the ice" with them. I have been in 2 very long term relationships so I haven't really dated since high school and feel totally out of practice. I don't want to hang out in clubs/bars (those were my college days and I'm not into that anymore). I already go to church but I haven't had much luck there yet either so I'm looking for some great suggestions.
Guys would really like your opinions on what I should do.

2007-07-05 18:47:20 · 4 answers · asked by jenny s 2 in Singles & Dating

theres this really cute guy, but he likes this other girl.
im just trying to figure out what she has that I don't.
i find that often, guys aren't that attracted to me, and I dont know why. I'm nice, I smile, and I try to talk to them, but I don't know what else to do so that I can attract a cute guy!
I need MAJOR help.

2007-07-05 18:44:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend have been together almost 2 years. and engaged since valentines day. Well it all started a month ago when my boyfriend moved to wyoming. He told me the reason why he was going there is bcuz he's always wanted to go there ever since he was younger and theres a job there where he can make alot of money. Its been over a month now since
he's been gone and its driving me crazy not getting to see him. All i do is stay depressed bcuz i was so used to being around him all the time and another thing that makes it hard is bcuz he was pretty much my first true love. He told me before he left that he will be back in november. Theres alot more to this story but i dont want to write all of it, i just need a little advice on what i should do to pass time until he gets back or if i should find someone else?

2007-07-05 18:44:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i don't know whether to text message this girl i like. shes on holidays with her family..
If i do what should i write????

2007-07-05 18:44:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i ask this because i'm tired of seeing female friends and family members who pick poorly when it comes to relationships

2007-07-05 18:39:58 · 39 answers · asked by franky7982 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 5 seconds away from calling her and telling her this. I am in a store parking lot now. Lately she's been telling me I'm useless, no good, a w*ore, sl ut, I can't stand it, I'm either gonna say something or not go home tonight and sleep in my car. Should I do it?

2007-07-05 18:37:27 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-07-05 18:36:49 · 35 answers · asked by Jazzy Angel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if you were in a relationship with someone (your first love) and you loved them but now they kind of annoy you and you dont really care as much (but when you broke up with them you feel like your heart is breaking even tho you thought you didnt love them) is there love there or is that just normal break up feelings

2007-07-05 18:33:27 · 4 answers · asked by somethin bout baby girl 2 in Singles & Dating

In the bedroom... a "take charge" kind of girl? Or would you prefer to be the "lead"?

2007-07-05 18:29:25 · 33 answers · asked by Wildflower 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-05 18:26:27 · 1 answers · asked by jh 1 in Singles & Dating

we wont have anything to talk about.
Any ideas or tips?

2007-07-05 18:23:18 · 5 answers · asked by bob 1 in Family