In the bedroom... a "take charge" kind of girl? Or would you prefer to be the "lead"?
2007-07-05 18:29:25 · 33 answers · asked by Wildflower 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I totally like it if my wife takes charge and has initiative. It is hard being the romantic all of the time. It Tells me that she is thinking of me and showing interest. I think that when you have 2 People that are really putting energy into the relationship it makes a big difference. I think that a take charge kind of girl is a awesome thing!
I would say that a majority of the time that I am the one that who is planting the seeds, being the romantic in the relationship. I think that in the bedroom if a woman takes charge and is aggressive sexually it is totally ok with me. I think that every guy is different and I believe that guys that are not comfortable with it probably have some hang ups about not being in charge. There is no bad kind of love, romance or sex in my book when you are in a relationship. It is all good.
I believe in this day and age that it really is a by no means a taboo thing. I think that women have a different approach and think differently. I know that my wife has come with things that I would have never thought of and have come to be my favorites So I say, more power to the woman that do! I think that overall love making will get better the more you allow your partner to be free and open. Besides I have learned from my wife that she has incredible ideas. I could not imagine if she was not in charge once in a while. It makes everything much more exciting.
2007-07-05 18:31:43 · answer #1 · answered by Mario L 4 · 7⤊ 3⤋
Honestly, it depends on the mood. Most men will say a take charge kinda girl and this is true for the most part as most women do play a submissive role in the bedroom. However, I also enjoy being in charge and pulling some hair or throwing her on the bed and just taking her, lol. But, to answer the question, I'd say a take charge kinda girl as my wife is a submissive type, at the moment.
2007-07-06 12:49:11 · answer #2 · answered by LOS 2 · 2⤊ 4⤋
It depends on the guy, of course, but I would generalize and say that guys, in the main, enjoy a woman who initiates sex.
2016-05-19 04:46:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never been in a relationship where the wife or girlfriend has been a take charge kind but I think it would be really cool to be in one. I have been married for just over 9 years and still love my wife. Even if she don't make the first move. The only way that a persistent woman would scare me is if she wanted to chain me up and do some crazy sick things. I'm not into that kind of thing.
2007-07-05 19:22:44 · answer #4 · answered by luongja 1 · 0⤊ 5⤋
Usually I like a woman to indicate her interest by flirting and teasing a little. Maybe a flash. Then I'll take the "lead".
In general, I think there's nothing more powerful than a woman being unintentionally sexy. Lingerie is a bit too contrived and staged. But lying on the couch in a wifebeater and cotton panties reading a book? Damn.
2007-07-05 18:41:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋
I love when a woman takes charge but usually its me that does the leading and charging.
2007-07-05 18:32:10 · answer #6 · answered by neverdugdisco 7 · 1⤊ 4⤋
I love a take charge girl
2007-07-05 18:31:57 · answer #7 · answered by HSTERN 3 · 1⤊ 4⤋
i would like a take charge kind of woman.
2007-07-05 18:46:39 · answer #8 · answered by my q 1 · 1⤊ 3⤋
A women "initiating" even 25% of the time would be great. Knowing that she's having sex because you wants to and needs it beats having it and not sure if she's really into it.
I'm tired of initating 100% of the time.
2007-07-06 01:02:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
Would love a woman who initiates.
2007-07-06 04:49:23 · answer #10 · answered by wow one 3 · 0⤊ 4⤋