I am 5 seconds away from calling her and telling her this. I am in a store parking lot now. Lately she's been telling me I'm useless, no good, a w*ore, sl ut, I can't stand it, I'm either gonna say something or not go home tonight and sleep in my car. Should I do it?
2007-07-05 18:37:27 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
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2007-07-05 18:41:55 · update #1
Well...my boyfriend's being a total dick at the moment...he won't answer his phone and I think he's mad at me anyways..oh well screw them all.
2007-07-05 18:48:14 · update #2
sorry! i forgot to put, i'm 18 years old
2007-07-05 18:49:56 · update #3
why don't you sit down and talk with her? Maybe she's jealous of how much action you're getting?
2007-07-05 18:40:32 · answer #1 · answered by neverdugdisco 7 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Sleeping in your car is probably not safe. Maybe just stay away for the moment until you can calm down and think a bit more rationally. Maybe stay at a friends house but call your Mom so she knows your safe.
Your Mom shouldn't be saying those things. Words spoken in anger will be regretted later. Remember no one should hate anyone. You can dislike or even hate their actions but not the person. I know you love your Mom because if you didn't love her this wouldn't hurt as much as it does. Once the anger subsides I hope you and your Mom can talk things out.
Everyone has a purpose and you do too. You're special. Hang in there. I will pray for you!
2007-07-05 18:48:27 · answer #2 · answered by tab 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people think they have a right to be messed up to you. But they don't. No matter who they are. She is your mother. She's supposed to set an example. By calling you all of these things, it just lowers her credibility as a mother. She's just teaching you how low a person can go by calling out names to her own child.
Tell her off. Stand up for yourself. If someone else were calling you these things, would you want to let them get away with it? Be honest. Tell her how you feel when she says things like that. If she still calls you those names, then tell her she's just mad because she probably is and then leave. She's asking to push you away if she's saying those things. So, maybe it'd be best for you to leave rather than put up with that sort of emotional/mental abuse.
2007-07-05 18:49:41 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't care who it is, a mother should never say that to her child.
That is wrong. A mothers love is to be unconditional love.
I don't even care if you've done wrong. My opinion, ask her why she says the things she says. She may be your mother, as I've noticed a lot of people are reminding you of this, but try reminding her that you are her daughter, she is the one that brought you into this world, crazy world that is. I'm sorry to say but I would be looking to start your life. You don't need to hear those things especially from your mom.
All the best to you.
I must say though, it is very sad to hear when a mother and daughter's relationship goes this way. If you guys can maybe one day have that bond again then great, but no daughter or son should hear that from a parent.
2007-07-12 11:29:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey,
In this case your mom has a problem with you. I think that you should show her that this is who you are! Have you ever seen Camp, the movie, where there is this girl and she is sort've big and her father hates her for it. So she wants to go to camp and they want to send her to fat camp. They comprimise, so she went to camp but thy had her braces like welded shut! So when they come for the parent evaluation or whatever the dad says," I don't understand! We had your mouth shut and you still look like that!" She gets upset and later two of the singers get into a fight and can't sing. So the teachers undo her mouth and she goes out there and sings a song about loveing her for who she is and just loving her. Her mom is crying in the audience giving her dad a dirty look as if she was saying," Look at your daughter and love her,would you!" He finaly gets the message and later loves his daughter and is crying knowing how selfish and stupid he was being!
I hope that you show your mom that the real you isn't all of those things!
Sincerly,
Kayla
2007-07-13 10:16:31 · answer #5 · answered by Kayla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Christine,
These are pretty harsh and painful words for a mother to say to her child. Just bc she has no respect for you doesn't mean you should do the same. Your smarter than that... Two wrongs don't make a right. Be the bigger person and when she in a good mood ask "why does she talk to you in this fashion?" That is if you already know the answer....If you need someone to write to feel free email me. Good Luck and keep a cool head.
2007-07-05 18:51:20 · answer #6 · answered by Rafa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, no matter how you're acting, I don't believe your mom should be calling you those names. Sounds like she thinks you are making some bad choices, and I'm sure in her own way she is trying to fix it. She should be praying that God will help you make the right choices, not fighting with you. I hope things go better for you.
2007-07-13 02:25:42 · answer #7 · answered by sniffles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell your mother you hate her!!!!! Just for the simple fact that she is your mother you need to respect her! I understand that you are tired of hearing her criticism and disrespectful comment over and over again. My parents are constantly telling my siblings an me stuff that sometimes we get so impatient and just want to blow up! Ignore all the mean comments she says, don't let it affect you and prove her wrong! If you can also try talking to her and tell her how you feel calmly without letting get out of control. I talked to my mom calmly and explained how she made me feel and doesn't really give me a hard time anymore
2007-07-05 18:47:24 · answer #8 · answered by Ebony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to find a homeless center for teens where you can spend the night. Can you stay at a friend's house/ Is not safe to be in a car. Tale care of yourself! Good luck.
2007-07-10 17:15:05 · answer #9 · answered by Beth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You hate your mom, but i believe you love her. So forgive her, talk to her nicely, Guess she must have gone thru a hard life too. Why can't you two just be nice to each other?
As for boyfriend, you are just 18, plenty of them will be at their knees for you, but you have to pick the one you love, the one that give you the confidence. Yeah, screw him up, why call him, let him call you. It not the end of all guys except him, there are lots of them.
2007-07-05 19:36:01 · answer #10 · answered by butterfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about it for a second. lets say you sleep in your car. your mom calls the police and all that stuff and she just ends up being more mad at you rite? I say go home and talk to her, if she doesnt listen at least you to can fight there at your house instead of making a big thing out of it. think mature, im sure your mom will appreaciate that. good luck, and i think at one point in everyones life they hate there mom
2007-07-05 18:41:38 · answer #11 · answered by haleema 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋