theres this really cute guy, but he likes this other girl.
im just trying to figure out what she has that I don't.
i find that often, guys aren't that attracted to me, and I dont know why. I'm nice, I smile, and I try to talk to them, but I don't know what else to do so that I can attract a cute guy!
I need MAJOR help.
2007-07-05 18:44:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A lot of times, it's not the physical, or something you can explain and put into words. It's something the two of them feel, that makes their connection special.
Don't go looing for a bf, be relaxed, be yourself, and get to know others. Let them get to know the real you. It'll work out in time... just be patient.
Best wishes!
2007-07-05 19:16:10 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are two pieces of the puzzle in attracting a guy: the active, and the reactive.
The active part of attracting him includes: dressing nicely, wearing just enough makeup, spraying yourself with just a trace of perfume, smiling, laughing, confidently indicating interest in the guy you like (without worrying about his reactions), having interesting hobbies, not always being available, and not being bothered by other girls (even if they might be cuter). Do all of these and you *will* get guys attracted to you.
The reactive part includes keeping your eyes and ears open. That guy may, in fact, be interested in you, but you missed the signals. Similarly, there will be other guys who express interest in you, whom you overlook. Respond to these guys first, and the cute guys will eventually follow. Love isn't always something you can control and direct; sometimes you just have to set up the right circumstances for it, and be ready when it arrives.
Hope this helps.
2007-07-06 02:26:16 · answer #2 · answered by Marc M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No worries, there WILL be a guy at some point. I'm a guy, and I've actually liked girls who have thought nobody would ever like them, and more than a few ppl have told me i'm cute/handsome/whatever. I kinda have the same sort of problem, but it seems that nice people always have less relationships but the ones they have are more meaningful.
2007-07-06 01:49:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dont know what is going on. Those are the things that I like in girls, that they are nice, smile, and can lead a conversation. I hate it when I always have to keep the conversation alive without their help. Good luck.
2007-07-06 02:06:38 · answer #4 · answered by beery 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are going after the wrong kind of guy!! Usually half the girls go for the same couple of guys and the rest of them sit back unnoticed. We see someone else interested and we want it!! Look in the background and see what else you see. Good luck.
2007-07-06 02:08:20 · answer #5 · answered by lahlahdipsypo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends.
I mean there are girls that like me, but I fell in love with Rachel and she is the only one that I see in that way. I mean sometimes we just fall for the girl and she is the only one that we want. Regardless of how nice or pretty or whatever someone else is. That is the truth and I am sorry.
2007-07-06 01:48:55 · answer #6 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Receeding tides leave puddles of sea water in their wakes. This could be a metaphor for your life. Try and lift up your sprits and give leverage to your self, dove.
2007-07-06 01:49:34 · answer #7 · answered by Qyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont try to figure it out. It'll make you crazy.
2007-07-06 01:49:20 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs. 26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nicer body wins!
2007-07-06 01:51:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps this guy wasnt the one meant for you talk your time the guy meant for you will be there when least expected . in my opion?
2007-07-06 01:52:14 · answer #10 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋