What do you do if your husband of five months is sleeoing with a fifteen year old girl behind your back?

Answer 1

Since you don't want to be married to a Pedophile, I suggest see a Lawyer to get an annulment to your marriage.

But first, inform the Police where you live about the Pedophile you're married to. He's breaking the law, not to mention your heart.

Don't stay married to a child abuser, even if their actions are consensual.

Answer 2

It is heartbreaking, and also a lesson about life. If the man is sleeping with a child ignoring newly wed wife, then I would conclude i) He does not love you and there is also no hope for future; he also does not love the 15 year old he is sleeping with, he is not capable of loving any one.
ii) He has problems and needs counseling, psychiatric treatment and institutional care
Solutions:
i) leave that man as soon as possible, contact a lawyer go for a divorce and heavy maintenance on the ground of cruelty and adultery (It is difficult to establish adultery)
ii) This man may be dangerous, so be careful in your dealings with him
iii) Initiate criminal proceedings and let him go to hell
After that give life a little time and start over again.

Answer 3

So sorry sweetheart but there is a name for people like your husband PEDOPHILE & it is illigal that is a crime if you know about this no matter how much it hurts you have to report it or your have just become his accomplice you too can be punished. You are going to be heartbroken because you love this man but just think about this what are you going to do if you end up gaving a daughter with this man & he endsup molesting one of your daughters or even a son. It happens all the time don't look the other way and do the right thing you may be saving someones life.

Answer 4

The problem you have has several issues at stake: Fidelity, Morality, and Legality. The fact that your married and your hurt is probably the first and foremost thing on your mind; so, for your sake, lets address that first. "past behavior is indicative of future behavior" , in other words, cheat once, probably cheat again. That being said, you have to ask yourself, "if that type of behavior never changes, can you live with it?" If you answer no, you can't live with it, then end the marriage now. Depending what state your in, you could possibly file for an annullment and save yourself a good bit of money by not having to go thru the divorce process. There are several sites out there to ask, or, simply go to your local library and look the state statutes up. If you chose to overlook this discretion, then realize this; you are most likely going to face going thru a legal battle once the authorities find out about the sexual incident with A MINOR. That would make your husband a sexual predator and he will suffer the legal consequences for his actions, and rightfully so. A man shouldn't be in a situation like you have stated with a CHILD. Its called Sexual Molestation. Is this what you envisioned during your "honeymoon" year? There is also a legal matter concerning "culpability". If you have knowledge of a sexual predators actions and do nothing about it, or even refuse to just report it, well, then your actions are allowing future abuse to occur. Morally, is that what you chose to do? Would you stand by and do nothing while your daughter was lured into a sexual interlude with an adult, or would you do something to stop it? (the preceeding question was purely hypothetical) THATS what you have to ask yourself. What can you live with, what can't you live with. Make your decision, then live with the results. I hope this helps you. I have attempted to answer your question without letting my own moral compass steer you. If it were me, I would have already called the childs mother/father, I would have already packed his bags and set them out at the curb, and THEN, I would be able to sleep at night.
I hope this helps you.+

Answer 5

Lot's of problems there. In most states, if he's over 21 and she is indeed 15, he's committed a crime. It's not about what he did, its about what you can prove. If you can prove it, he's toast.

Now on to your relationship. He's cheated; and whether with a 15 or 30 yr old, you need to decide if there is any reason to stay in the relationship. What is a one off (if such things actually exist) or is he exhibiting behaviors that he will repeat. Most of the time, people set precedents with their actions and don't REALLY change their stripes. Yes, one offs do occasionally occur and genuine people deserve second chance but this is rare.

Answer 6

number one if he is an adult,that would be child molesting!!! if you really are sure and have proof i would confront him about this as he needs therapy before he goes to prison!!
he knows what he is doing is wrong!!! you thought you knew him when you married him, did you think he would pull this?
i definately could not forgive this because this is a child he is sleeping with,her parents could,should and probably have charges brought against him!!! it kinda reminds you of all the teacher sleeping with their student stories!!!
Think about how you would feel if you were the parent of this daughter and an adult married man was sleeping with your 15 year old daughter,my husband would kill him!!!
you deserve better and after 5 months,what will he pull in the next year if you keep him, could you trust him later down the road around let's say your daughters friends??????
i feel bad you are having to deal with this but you need to put a halt to this now as a responsible adult and find someone who will be faithful and true to you,don't you deserve that???
good luck in whatever your decision!!!

Answer 7

Statutory Rape is serious! If you can prove the girl and your stupid husband have been where they should not have been, He may face some time in the cross bar hotel.. Report him to the police...and find a real man, later... Divorce him for sure..

Answer 8

First off dump the jackass then have him reported to law enforcement. It is against the law to have sex minors with regardless.
(most 15 year old know what they are doing,they are not as innocent as they seem but regardless it is still against the law)

Answer 9

Call the cops, file for divorce and/or kick his A S S what a sicko! Sorry, thats just wrong on so many different levels!
Sick sick sick

Answer 10

DAMN! I just caught the sleeping around part at first. 15!? Yeah, get a good attorney and call the police, this is definitely at the least statutory rape!