Why do i attract men that are much older than me, and don't attract men near my age?
2007-07-05 18:51:51 · 4 answers · asked by A.P. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You could be putting out vibes, that you like older men. When they approach you, you might seem receptive to them. Whereas other girls your age, might shun them or turn them away.
Most girls are much more mature, than boys their own age. So they are looking for someone, they can relate to.
So you might seem more positive and confident, in your manner, and that can turn young men away. Who just aren't up to your level as yet.
Eventually, the men your age, will catch up to you. However, you may find, that even when they do, you are more attracted to older and wiser men.
2007-07-05 19:02:00 · answer #1 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at the way you dress and act. Do you give all the wrong signals that tend to catch older men's attention. Look at what girls your age are wearing and how they behave - learn from your peers that you respect.
2007-07-05 18:56:22 · answer #2 · answered by curious gal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could very well be that us older men may see in you, the vitality, the vigor or the liveliness that we may not see in women our own age. That being said, it could also be something as simple as this: Maybe your attractive and men have eyes. lol....I hope this helps.
2007-07-05 18:56:46 · answer #3 · answered by gonnawon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be how you are carrying yourself. i had the same problem too, but it turned out that i preferred older men than men my own age. maybe you are the same way . . . ?
2007-07-05 18:55:33 · answer #4 · answered by butterfly84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋