how to recover from a break off?

Answer 1

I was with a guy for over a year and he ended up cheating on me. Well, here I am now... a couple months later and I am doing great. I learned a lot and have become a stronger person.

Realize that God has a plan for you... and that He has so much in store for you. God has given me so much hope and strength, that I know He will bring me the right one in His time. He's blessed me with so many other things that I should be happy about. And I AM happy... I'm grateful.

Just be happy that you have it good... it could be worse.

If God brings you to it, He'll bring you through it.
And God does not take something away from you without giving you something better.


It will be okay. I promise. ♥

Answer 2

1) Give yourself time to grieve/recover. It might help to stop talking to your ex for a while.
2) Take up/get back into a hobby. Find something that makes you happy/keeps your mind off the heartbreak.
3) Put away items/things that remind you of the ex so that you aren't reminded of them.
4) Exercise and turn that sad energy into endorphins.
5) Don't jump into another relationship until you are emotionally "cured" of the break-up.

Answer 3

yes right time is the only healer.......... i had a break off.
I thought that if i see someone else it might help but no that does not help i tried with many girls but it was not possible to forget her. Thanks to my friends who helped me out they really helped me, I guess involving urself in other activities is the best option. Moreover if the other person did not care for you why should u waste ur precious time thinking about him/her.
Life goes on and so do u............... get over it try doing some diffrent stuff, make new freinds try out new hobbies.
Time is the best healer.......... n never think that u were responsible for all this, somethings are not in ur control............. let it go.

Answer 4

Get your mind off of it with anything you can. Distract yourself. They will be on your mind less and less as time goes by, until you can deal with it. I myself have had to do this, and it's worked for me. Can't say it will for you for sure, but it's definetly worth a shot. Unfortunetly.. break off's can't be healed by believing a man in the clouds will make it better.. heres a fact.. he doesn't. You have to help yourself rather than wait to be helped and made happy again. I've done the break off thing.. advice like "God doesn't take away without giving you something better" has not been true to me to this date and time.

Answer 5

mind is a powerful and big repository. twipe of the matter or thing that bothers from u r mind and try to see the positive side of life. read good books. hearfine music and do good things. feel that u r fortunat enough when compared to so many other people. concentrate on u r selected area of work and do u r level best. all the best.

Answer 6

Just tell yourself ke she was not worth of your love or friendship. Think positive u will get someone worth of love soon. I know when u r in this situation whole world looks dull meaningless, but open your eyes bit wider and see the beautiful things around feel the beauty from heart and praise them u will feel better.

Answer 7

Get involved wtih as many activities, as you can. Go out on group outings. Hang around wtih your friends, get interested in other things. Just don't dwell on your old girl friend. ]
Time will fade their memory and you will be open to meet other ladies.

Answer 8

hmm go outside....talk to pplz....spend time worrying about urself...dont worry about recover frm break ups....grls come and go...u just have to get use to it....and if u rele want a grl...start flirting with them and get to kno them....

Answer 9

like you recover from a viral infection ...

Answer 10

ONLY TIME IS BIG HEALER ALSO YOU MAY BUSY YOURSELF IN OTHER THINGS LIKE SPORTS STUDY ETC,