Hey Boys.... Help a big girl out?

Question

Hi Guys! I'm a big curvy girl, and am feeling like I could use some male company. Where can I meet guys who would like me? Is there an online community? A place in the real world?

Also... What should a big curvy girl say in a personal ad that would reel in appreciative men?

Thanks a bunch!

After reading the trend of the answers I'm getting, I feel the need to add to this. I'm taking loads of classes. Everyone is 10 years younger than I am. It's not an option at this time. I'm a member of quite a few organizations - no luck there either.

This Fat Feeders thing is sad and creepy. It sounds like a horrible form of abuse, and I can't believe that someone would suggest than anyone do this or submit to having someone else do it to them.

Answer 1

I don't think you need any advice. You seem pretty smart to me, to come up with some witty and funny personal ad.
Gee, and there are so few big men out there, for you, isn't there.
What you need to do, is get out more, join a club, take some adult classes at your local college. Go to where you can meet men in an informal way.
If you take classes, some may bomb, but you might have fun learning something new.
Just look for a class, that will attract men. Pass up the embroidery classes. Cooking class, might work, or something along those lines.
Good luck, you do sound like a winner, no whining, just straight out, and honest. You go gal! There is some lucky guy for you.

Answer 2

Be honest. Guys appreciate honesty from women. There are plenty of online websites you can try, ranging from simple ones like MySpace and Facebook to full out dating sites, like ChristianMingle.com and Mate1.com. If you want to meet guys, then you can't be feeling self-conscious. Low confidence in yourself means failure to pick up guys.

I dunno if this'll interest you, but this morning, I read an article in Details Magazine about fat fetish. People are starting to awaken to their fat fetish, and starting to accept it. Mainly, there are people who are "feeders", who are thin or fat and constantly feed their lovers to gain weight, and there are gainers, fat people who become more fat to satisfy their lovers. They embrace and enjoy fat sex more than anything, and people are starting to speak out for it and against it. Personally, I'm not for it, but I'm not against it either. I'm slightly muscular, but more on the thin side (see my Yahoo! 360 or MySpace page for pictures), but I thought the article was interesting. I never knew about it until this morning. If you want to meet more people like you and want to get into this trend, go to this website (given by Details Magazine): http://www.fatfeeders.com I haven't been to the site, but I'm pretty sure it explains more about it than the magazine did, and you can meet and date people who are into that sort of thing. Just an option for you. Good luck.

Answer 3

add [e-mail],email me as well,ill be lookin for ya