My husband likes to have sex all the time. But sometime i just want to relax.?

Question

I give him sex as much as i can but if he goes one day with out having sex. he becomes mad and starts saying that i''am cheating on him . what would you do ?

Answer 1

Give him a rubber vagina molded from your own, complete with landing strip, winterbush or shaved (however you keep your own). When he needs some and your not feeling up to it, have him hammer the latex. Make sure you stipulate that he is required to wash it out and maintain it.

Answer 2

The cheating thing is weird, but at least you have a husband with a sex drive. I'm 21, my husband is 22 and I always have to initiate sex. Better to be tired than to feel unwanted and unattractive... I swear, I got the ONE 22 year old guy that doesn't want sex all the time. Maybe our men can switch sex drives?? Fix both our problems ;)

Just tell him you need a break. If he loves you he should understand.

Answer 3

After me, you have to trye to find together with him, a new tipe of enjoy, to keep your husband satisfied, like doing exercices together, martial arts, jogging, or another kind of activity who will consume his energy. If you do it to convince him to start practicing some sport activity, you'll see that the situation will be much better. (escuse my mistakes in wroting, cause i'm a bad schoolar...) I discover another way , a clever one, to make your man be more resonable with you, when you are tired or simply dont want to play with him for many reason: for example, when you catch him tired, or after he come bach from a football mach, or a gim practice, or anything else who make him less horny, you have to go and hugh him kiss him, and try to engage him in a making love time...if he is tired, he will not be able to satisfy you, so you have to tell him than: 'o, is allright, it is no problem, i understand you...you must be tired, do ia'?' you know what to tell him; if you doing like i council you , he will feel like a creep ,and next time when he trie to disturb you when you dont feel the same, for shure he will remember that situation and you will see that he will become much resonable with you. You can repeat the same operation many time, only changed a little the scenario, till he will start to use his inteligence and hes bon-sense, understanding that the love between to young person, have to be a comune feeling, not just a way to satisfy your own needs. Again i want you to escuse my english, and i hope i was helpful to your life, with my advise! Your frend, Madalin Ivan, and councelar, if you want.

Answer 4

I understand u cuz my husband would like to have sex everyday too and i wont.
The fact that he says u cheat on him it s very stupid and shows he is immature and selfish because he does not respect the fact u want to rest.
My husband respects me now and when i tell him i wont it he waits 4 me to be ready.
But i had to speak with him about it...I explained him how i feel and how my body feesl.
I told him that my job is very stressing and that i need some rest.
I try to make him understand how i feel about it and how much i love him even if sometimes i wont make love.
Sex is not all in a relationship...make him understand how u feel...if he s intelligent and not selfish he should understand...
Good luck!!!!

Answer 5

If you have a man who thinks your cheating because you dont want to have sex for some days, there is def a problem.

Tell him that you are sensitive and that you need your space, and that you love him but having sex all the time is exhausting and that you two need to make some plans and dates lol

Answer 6

This is more than just about sex. Why would you want to be with someone who demands sex out of you and basically calls you a whore if you don't. Sex isn't in the marriage agreement. You need to get some courage and tell him how it is going to be from now on and you BOTH need to talk to a counselor about his issues.

Answer 7

1st off, be glad he wants to have sex w/ you. it would be way worse the other way around. try and make a compromise. if u are ok w/ once a week and he wants if once a day, shoot for 3 times a week. just tell him exactly how u feel and it is normal for a girl to not want it constantly. youre not weird, promise!

Answer 8

Just tell him that you feel like doing something different. Tell her that you would like to hug him and hold him tight for a while and watch a romantic movie together, something like that. Try to convince him that there is more to sex in a marriage and you love him very much. Give him assurance. I am sure he will understand.

Answer 9

Since you're husband is always in the mood, i suggest buying him a fleshlight... whats a fleshlight? you ask, a fleshlight is a exact duplicate of a flashlight base with a replica of a womans vagina, mouth,anus or discreet when he goes on business trips insert, which feels like the real thing!!!, so when you're in the kitchen doing dishes he can be doing his own little thing in the master bathroom or something... there is several options for inserts one is the regular, this is the perfect match if your husband prefers vaginal sex, their is two types of tight: super tight and ultra tight, ultra tight is the smallest of the sort, in which your husband is promised a orgasm on the spot, and there are variations of speed bumps and ribbed. Now i advise you too be careful with this toy, this is a very addictive toy!!!!!! i only advise you to use this when extremely tired because you're husband will get used too the fact of using one and might leave you all together for the fleshlight. (JK) the fleshlight usually goes for 60 bucks but it will be worth it too get a full night of sleep

Answer 10

Sex and intimacy is important in marriage as is trust and integrity. Tell him you would like to relax - with him. do something fun and show love in many ways.