It's getting old... I have seen that question 100 times. I am 18 years old and I never met any nice guy... Only bad guys pretending to be nice guys... Each and every single one of them. Acting like they "care" in the beginning and act like they're nice till they showed their true colours. So don't say I'm attracted to jerks or bad boys cause I wouldn't date them. =P I have never met a truely nice guy or have guy friends. So you can't say, "oooh it's that guy that you never noticed that always has his shoulder for you when you cry..." Yeah I don't have that. So stop asking that, cause it isn't true. If it was, I wouldn't be saying this.
2007-07-05 19:45:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Account #23 - HA! If that was the case, I would have have one of them by my side right now! So why don't you tell that to yourself? I know I'm not attracted to jerks, because that's why I'm only attracted to the nice one... Duh. If I was, I wouldn't be posting this!
2007-07-05 19:58:48 · update #1
PEGGY S - Preach on, sister! I was the same way! I mean I met this church dude... In the beginning, he was nice and caring... soooo caring... and then suddenly just changed... I mean seriously, they need to stop labelling us and make us in the wrong side... If we were attracted to jerks, we wouldn't be complaining about this, now would we?
2007-07-05 20:00:12 · update #2
Pronk - Yeah well I can't say that, because I haven't met any kind of guy friend who's been "there"... like a lot of people have. So... yeah
2007-07-05 20:01:16 · update #3
Anonymous - .... Yeah that's not it either...
2007-07-05 20:02:08 · update #4
Account #23 - Oh another thing... from the way you talk... I don't know how you are a nice guy... because even those bad guys who disguised as nice guys talked way nicer than you do... So maybe you're not as nice as you think you are...
2007-07-05 20:03:13 · update #5
quite easy, genuine nice guys, lack confidence, which is why 'girls' seem to avoid them or not notice them in the 1st place, also likely shy too at times,
2007-07-05 20:04:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am with you. If there is a nice one out there, he is hiding.
They are all nice at first. Then you get attached to them, and they think that they own you.
The only difference is that some of them are worse than others.
I am dating a guy now that is not very attractive. I didn't care because he treated me nice--that is until he thought I really cared about him. Then he starts acting as if HE is doing me a favor by seeing me. Well, guess what. I am not going to put up with the arrogant act. Either he explains the actions, or he will not be seeing me again. I just thought that he would be a nice change from the good looking a##holes that I normally date!!! I see now that you don't have to be good looking to be an a##hole!!!
2007-07-05 19:51:39 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finally! This is so true! Guys keep asking what is wrong with us because we are attracted to jerks. We're not attracted to them!! They pretend to be the nice guy, but they're totally not. There's nothing wrong with us. There's something wrong with those guys that pretend to be the nice guy when they're the complete opposite and all they want is one thing. Thank you for putting this up here!
2007-07-06 03:56:07 · answer #3 · answered by JuneBug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am super girly and I am attracted to girly girls. I wouldn't say I am a LESBIAN because I have dated men in the past but now I am more interested in women. Everyone has their own tastes and likes ... there are men out there who prefer tomboy women also....
2016-04-01 11:02:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi cool gal its rgsiguana here and i know some say that their nice and they do change but their is some of us that are very loyal to a womens heart and we do respect all that she has to say and wants to feel with her man and some of us are very humble and gentle and nice only a few of us are left but when you do find us we are genuine and im one of them. i have been your friend for a while and will always be friendly and gentle with you and do care about you and it makes me sad to hear that some men are treating you the way you should not be treated. in my opinion women should be treated with respect and love and passion to know and make her feel like she wants and needs to felt. and as for you men out their treat women like how you would want to be treated, with respect and love and try to understand a women and what she goes through and how she wants to feel. coolgal i hope you find a nice gentelman that will love and respect you and treat you like a lady and someone who wont be a nice guy then a jerk the next. i wish you all the luck and blessings of the lord. god bless. p.s im here for you when ever you need to talk or need something. your friend rgsiguana
2007-07-06 05:37:16 · answer #5 · answered by rgsiguana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, it's simple. All guys are jerks. Therefore, if you're attracted to guys, you're attracted to jerks. That easy.
Well, okay, I suppose there are *some* guys that aren't jerks. But they're both either taken or just plain dumb.
2007-07-05 19:53:24 · answer #6 · answered by DaTedinator 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a lot of truth in what you're saying. Still, there a lot of girls who go out with guys who are overtly bad instead of being nice pretenders, and maybe that's largely what people are saying.
2007-07-05 19:48:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No guys are ever really nice. But some of them are hot, and some of them can be cool for a bit.
2007-07-05 19:48:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, some girls are attracted to bad boys. Just because your don't like bad boys, that doesn't mean other girls don't like them.
2007-07-05 19:51:13 · answer #9 · answered by gforce_929 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously they make it look like we are in the wrong! Its not our fault THEY act like there nice but in reality there not! They jus need to grow up!! I AM SICK AND TIRED OF READING QUESTIONS MAKING IT SOUND LIKE US GIRLS ARE IN THE WRONG!!!!!
celia
2007-07-05 19:52:18 · answer #10 · answered by nicolas~cage~luver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋