What are the secrets..........
How do you get it..................
2007-07-05 05:29:16 · 7 answers · asked by wildnmad 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
people are confident about things they know about and are comfortable with. when you know exactly who you are and you have accepted it, your confidence in yourself will grow and grow. there are no secrets. how do YOU get it? you are asking the right questions to yourself and as long as you like those answers (which i think you will) then that confidence is on its way. people arent born with it, it comes with self-awareness. just at different times x
2007-07-05 07:12:27 · answer #1 · answered by paul m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take some time out. Do a lot of thinking by your self. Do some reading. Learn why you do things... (that is quite hard) and learn what you truly value. Learn what is truly important. Work on self discipline... but in small steps. Set some goals that you know you can meet. Reward yourself when you succeed. Most of all, find the good in you, and make it grow. Do nice things for people. Know who you are. This will give you confidence to be yourself by yourself and with others. The best kind of BFL are those that be themselves. Honest.
2007-07-05 12:32:47 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's a secret for you: Confidence does you absolutely squat.
I consider myself a pretty confident guy, but you're NEVER going to see my front door being beaten down by fine single women who want me on any level. What is it that other guys are doing to attract women? I have no idea, except that it's not their confidence.
2007-07-05 12:33:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pretend you have it. People will believe it. Eventually the offs of having confidence will occur. This will result in actual confidence. Very few people are genuinely confident.
2007-07-05 12:38:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
It comes naturally when you are comfortable and happy with yourself.
Try to love yourself more, Try to say NO to whatever you dont like. Try being in charge of your own life!!!
2007-07-05 12:33:39 · answer #5 · answered by AK 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't know what a woman needs conidence for. Just dress well enough and men'll notice!
2007-07-05 12:38:55 · answer #6 · answered by Pe-nan-ce 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
okay say like your nervous about doing something like walking across stage when you graduate from high school
so you jus clear your mind and don't thnk about anything
thats what i did at my jr. high gradutation
2007-07-05 12:35:43 · answer #7 · answered by bizzie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋