It's been almost 5yrs since they met. My god-daughter (their daughter) is 3yrs old now. We'll call them *King* and *Queen*. King has 2 jobs, 1 day job and 1 night job. No-one, not even Queen, has any idea what the night job is. Every other night (AND EVERY other SATURDAY), King has to "work" at his night job. He carries a bookbag with lotion, cologne, deodorant and BABY OIL!!! He receives a lot of text messages and calls from men and they always communicate in Spanish (maybe so that Queen won't understand what they're talking about!). She has a lot of hints/ clues that he's cheating but she refuses to confront him and just says she's leaving him as soon as she saves enough $. I feel she's in MAJOR DENIAL! When they 1st met she found a *ildo in his bedroom before they moved in together. If THAT didn't make her move on then, I highly doubt she'll move on now.
I want her to be happy! But she's whining me to death! How much more can I help? I'm hurting for my goddaughter and my bff too.
2007-07-05 04:56:18 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The truth about denial is that you're lying to yourself...and that's not good.If he's running around on her he could bring home a disease that could kill her...so she needs to WAKE-UP and drop this guy. She deserves better than this.
Good luck
Bye
2007-07-05 05:18:51 · answer #1 · answered by Danica Fan 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There's not much you can do. I know what it's like to have a friend who's in a bad relationship and in denial. I'm sure you're sick of the whining, but just be there for her when she needs you.
2007-07-05 12:02:24 · answer #2 · answered by tangerine 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋