2007-07-05 00:58:33 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I agree with most of the people here. It's completely normal and natural. It'll also be natural for him to possibly pursue sex with another person as well. I have a son who's now 7, but when he's a teenager, I know it'll be difficult for me to handle, only because it'll mean that my baby's "growing up". Certainly not because I think masturbation isn't "normal".
This is a part of life that most of us have experienced. I would mention to you, that if he has his door closed and he's alone to NOT just barge in. Always knock, because you'll never know. Also, if you're married (or if there's any other male figure that your son is close to), I'd have this person kind of just let your son know that it's OK, but just a very private act. This is important for your son to be told since many of us grew up being told that masturbation is a "sin" or just plain "bad".
Good luck to you with dealing with this. I know when the time comes, it'll be difficult for me. :)
2007-07-05 01:23:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a teenage son. I didnt feel either way about him masterbating as I believe its a normal part of life.
2007-07-05 01:03:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a natural and normal thing to do. I have 2 sons fast approaching their teenage years. They are going to be curious about anything related to girls and sex. I would rather they masturbate than have unprotected and indiscriminate sex. As long as they keep it in their room and don't tie up the bathroom then I have no problem with it.
2007-07-05 02:50:44 · answer #3 · answered by Coop's Wife 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Through brothers, son and now grandsons I have seen evidence of masturbation. I would say it is the most normal thing in the world. I feel that as long as the boy is doing this in the privacy of his room it is fine.
2007-07-05 01:05:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't have a teenage son .. but I think you'll find it's a part of being a normal boy. Since you're asking the question, how do you feel about it?
2007-07-05 01:00:37 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ JustAChick ♥ 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
As the father of a teenage girl, I would encourage all teenage boys to masturbate every day.
As an ex-teenage boy, I would also encourage it. It gives them a little "pressure release" and allows them to think about something other than sex.
2007-07-05 01:05:19 · answer #6 · answered by runningman022003 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have a teenage son but I prefer not to think about that!!!
2007-07-05 01:14:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have a teenage son (I'm not much older than that myself) but I would be very, very concerned if he DIDN'T masterbate at that age.
2007-07-05 01:01:25 · answer #8 · answered by SvetlanaFunGirl 4 · 7⤊ 0⤋
I don't have a teenage son, but if I did as long as he did it in private it would be ok with me. It beats having sex and getting a girl pregnant.
2007-07-05 01:00:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
i feel that it comes natural.it is something they learn to do on thier own ,so it will be done no matter what.dont fight it,they will do it regardless.i honestly think that mastebation for my teen is safer then going out for real sex and getting a disease.just relax and let it be.he is being normal.you were once a teen!just talk to him about the "real sex". let him know that once a person starts having it,they wont stop. tell him to relieve himself by masturbation until he is actually ready and responsible to have safe sex.if you dont feel the time for talking to him is right just yet(i dont see why it shouldnt)then let him be.RELAX
2007-07-05 01:07:13 · answer #10 · answered by fishin for answer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋