I see this man on the train every morning, he is no less then any super model out there. The man attracts more attention than anyone I have ever seen.
I have been seeing him for the last six months and he is always sleeping. He looks so like a child when he is sleeping. I have decided to give him a wake up call.
Tomorrow I will get a nice coffee made from Costa and wake him up saying “have a good rest; drink this it will keep you awake”
I don’t care what he says, maybe he has action all night to which he has to catch up on sleep at random hours. I am going to offer him a nice meal and tuck him in bed early. I can not bear the pain of seeing him so tired, it kills me inside because I love him so much & I am going to tell him to stop wearing suits because he looks too good, I don’t want anyone looking at my future man LOL
People any more advice you would like to give me?
2007-07-05 00:14:22 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need a life!
2007-07-05 00:18:50 · answer #1 · answered by Patty G 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
i don't know if your going about this the right way. if you never talked to him before this is a bad idea if this is the first time and your going to wake him up and give him coffee say "Lately I've seen you sleeping on this train which is kinda cute but, I'm a little concerned, could I offer you some coffee"
this starts a conversation is less likely to not scare him (hint) don't hover over him, sit next to him and look sincere. then you can take it from here. also don't tell him you want to marry him right away this will defiantly scare him away.
good luck
2007-07-05 00:30:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You BETTER find out about this guy BEFORE you go making wedding plans hon.You do not know squat about him.He may be leaving a different girls house each morning for all you know.He may be a serial killer.He may be an avowed bachelor.He may be a male prostitute.Just because he "looks good" doesn't mean he is prince charming.He may have a fiance, he may be gay.If a person needs rescuing there is a reason for it.It means they made bad decisions and have a problem in their thinking, which means when YOU hook up with them you are going to have problems with them because they do not think normally.Go ahead and offer him the coffee, and PROCEED WITH CAUTION.Get to KNOW him FIRST and find out about him before you EVER even go on a first date.Also be honest with YOURSELF quit trying to find "fixer uppers" or someone who needs to be "rescued" to marry, that sounds like desperation on your part.See him as he REALLY is through th harsh eyes of reality and not through your silly little school girl hormone induced fantasy.
2007-07-05 00:24:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep your fantasy where it belongs, in your mind. Unless of course you are prepared for reality. When you wake him he might say Thank you in a squeaky high pitched voice then proceed to tell you that his boy friend might not like the idea of you talking to him or he is married already with 10 kids!!!
Never judge a book by its cover, try to discover a little about him first. Certainly your approach is classy, he will know for sure that you like him. But other than that I would be inclined to keep it a little lower in key.
Good Luck to you
2007-07-05 00:41:44 · answer #4 · answered by hotod 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you offer the coffee, you should start by telling him you run into him on the train for the last 6 months, seeing him fall asleep. It'll make the random encounter less random.
2007-07-05 00:20:26 · answer #5 · answered by internetnooborlyyarly 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Has it occured to you that this man may be a shift worker who has been up all night and is on his way home?? That is why he is probably asleep! Don't buy anything for him straight away! If you are so obsessed with this guy just start a casual conversation with him! Buy him something later once you know exactly who he is! I know you are trying to be kind but you have to be carefull in this day and age!
2007-07-05 00:26:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honey - I really think it would be a bad idea to go about it this way - saying hi would be good and striking up a conversation - but waking him up with a coffee - that will probably scare him.
Good luck Hon
2007-07-05 00:19:03 · answer #7 · answered by Gem 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You're obsessed with a man you have never even spoken to. How can you love him!
Talk to the guy first, but don't wake him. I'd take that as rude.
2007-07-05 00:30:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you want to do it then do it. What's the worst that can happen he will tell you to get lost, he may well be taken aback but why not if you want to do it then do it.
Good luck and we wait to see the one where you ask what to do next!!
2007-07-05 00:48:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is beautiful! so? he is a man who sleeps on train every morning. Be very very careful. Wake him up, but don't do anything more than that. And, please keep me updated.
2007-07-05 00:25:18 · answer #10 · answered by veceras 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋