theres this realy cute boy accros the street and i realy like him but i didnt know if he likes me he hanges out with me and i feel theres a conection im scarred to ask him out becase he might say no so what should i do?
2007-07-05 17:14:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my cousin asked this.
2007-07-05 17:14:58 · update #1
Well if you hang out a lot, then you should try talking to him. Like ask him about other girls, see if he pays any attention to them. If not, then ask if likes you. If he says only as a friend, then keep him as a friend (normal friends are good to have). If he says he likes you, then ask him why he has never asked you out. If he says he is scared to, then tell him maybe if he did you might say yes. He'll get the point. If he says he doesn't like you (weird but it does happen) then ask him why you keep hanging out together...
2007-07-05 17:20:51 · answer #1 · answered by Mr Unknowable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would honestly wait a few more weeks until you get into that. The whole thing with asking him out is so nerve racking and i personally feel like it's his job. Wait a few more weeks and what I usually do is if there IS a connection, ask him one day "John, so we've been hanging out for a while and I just want to know what are we are far as in a relationship..." I would suggest something like that because it isn't too demanding you know??? and also when things get confusing it sucks! take my advice, i asked one of my best friends that and we've been going out for over 2 years! GO GET EM GIRL!!!
2007-07-05 17:19:23 · answer #2 · answered by wanttohelp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just enjoy the moment being with him ... asking him such question might put both of you in a certain discomfort the next time he hanges with you.
If your saying that you felt a connection between the two of you well let's just wait and see ... he will be the one to ask if you feel the same way too.
goodluck girl!
2007-07-05 17:20:22 · answer #3 · answered by princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go up to him and ask him out! What's there to lose? If he likes you, great! If not, you can still hang out, it's not like it's over. Everyone's different and has different personalities. We won't know if he likes you or not, so just ask him. You'll be fine. Good luck!
nicole
2007-07-05 17:18:18 · answer #4 · answered by nicole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write him a note with your feelings, but make sure to explain to him "Dont let your decision have any affect on our friendship" so that if he says yes, and for some reasong you guys end up breaking up or something, it wont ruin your friendship.
2007-07-05 17:17:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look at it this way
you want to go out with him.
if you dont ask him, you dont go out with him
if you do ask him then there is a chance of you going out with him, and a chance of him saying no.
but if you'e waiting for him to ask you. if he was ever gonna ask you, then he will say yes when you ask him and start that mch sooner, or if he says no then he was never gonna ask you so, in which case tough luck.
2007-07-05 17:21:35 · answer #6 · answered by spiffo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Classic dilemma of the teenaged girl- to ask or not to ask a guy out. I would say go for it.
2007-07-05 17:17:28 · answer #7 · answered by Riya Layne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's how it is with me and the guys I think you shoud wait and let him make the move just so you don't get hrt.
2007-07-05 17:25:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you like him and ask him how he feels about you.
2007-07-05 17:17:47 · answer #9 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to give him signs so you dont really have to tell him he could get an idea so he can make the first move
2007-07-05 17:23:35 · answer #10 · answered by taylor r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋