well one night i slepy downstairs because i was watching a movie...and then i woke up in the morning and upstairs i could here my parents bed sqeaking....it just made me mad that they would actually have sex when i'm in the house...and it made me feel uncomfortable to be around them afterwards
and this has happend a couple times before too
and my room is like rihgt next to theres so it's even worse there
and one time i almost walked in on htem doing it
i really want to tell them that it's bothering that they do it when i'm home
i'm 14 so...it just makes me feel weird
if i was older i prolly wouldn't minde much but yea
i need advice
2007-07-05 18:04:17 · 15 answers · asked by chipperdin_89 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You should thank God that you have two parents who love each other. It is not "all aboout you." Have some respect. If they are making love, then go to another part of the house of something.
More than half the kids in the nation would gladly change places with you.
2007-07-05 18:09:14 · answer #1 · answered by Iamstitch2U 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be mad, how do you think you got here?! Be glad they're actually doing it..with each other. I bet alot of your friends parents have a crappy relationship or none at all.
Just ask them to turn on the radio or something cause you don't wanna hear them bumpin' uglies. I'm sure they'll oblige! It'll be embarrassing for all of you to have that conversation so make it short and sweet. They may just start doing it when you're not at home if they realize it bothers you so much.
Oh and a shut door is a locked door in my house, always knock before entering!
2007-07-05 18:10:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that you feel weird but how the heck do you think that you got here? The Virgin Birth? I don't think so. Your parents are adults and they have a right to make love in their house. I think that you're being selfish to want them to wait until "HER majesty is not at home. How pays the bills and who buys you things and makes sure that you have a house to live in and aren't on the street?? Your parents has a life before you and will have a life after you move out and if they want to make love as long as they aren't doing it right in front of you than you don't get a say in the matter. Just make sure that when you have children you don't make love with them around. You should be glad that they are making love instead of plans for a divorce.
2007-07-05 18:16:37 · answer #3 · answered by Kathryn R 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girl, GROW UP!
Sex is what married people do and you should be thanking the lord that your parents have healthy libidos and are INTO each other still.
There is nothing wrong with parents having sex when their children is at home as long as it's behind closed locked doors.
I walked into my parents doing it when I was 16. Embarrasing and angry at fist, only cause they didn't lock the door not because they choose to have fun while their teenage daughter is at home.
Heck change your mindset. The younger generation is supposed to be more open minded than the older anyway so please.
2007-07-05 18:32:28 · answer #4 · answered by sweetashess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had to laugh when I read this--because I too have overheard my parents. At first it was like, OMG that's my PARENTS doing that, what the...?! But after a while, you just have to think...That's how you got here, isn't it? Besides, it's great that they are still intimate...awkward as it is to think of them like that.
As far as it making you feel weird that they do it when you're at home...well, maybe they're just having a hard time finding alone time, you know? Just pop in a pair of headphones and dissolve yourself into your own world.
2007-07-05 18:25:47 · answer #5 · answered by SheIsDeath 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a hard one, but your parents are human too. They are allowed to have sex in the home they pay for if they want. Maybe just tell your mom. Hey do you think you could make sure I cant hear it. :)
2007-07-05 18:53:23 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. 26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure this would be terrible for you, my suggestion is for you to talk to an aunt or a close friend of your mothers , if you don't feel comfortable talking to her yourself. Just tell them your situation and ask if they would feel comfrtable talking to your mom.Sugest they close their door and try not to make so much noise.
But you also have to understand this is part of being married altho you should not have to bear witness to it, maybe turn your radio up really load when they start and they should get the hint. Hope this works for you.best wishes.
2007-07-05 18:13:19 · answer #7 · answered by mandy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would say something , I would be embarrassed also if It were my parents.
Instead of being mad when you do say something you could say something like....
"Hey cut out that racket nobody wants to hear you two bumping uglies!"" good luck
2007-07-05 18:15:05 · answer #8 · answered by Darcher 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i hear you, i'm 15. tell your parents who u feel. they will understand. plus sometimes they might have not known u where aware of what was happning. think about it, u were downstairs sleeping or u were in ur room sleeping, so they might have thought u were sleeping. and maybe they will find there own place and time for themselves. just talk to them, there your parents, they will listen to you.
2007-07-05 18:11:16 · answer #9 · answered by Sketch 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your parents love each other, there is nothing wrong with that Respect their privacy...make sure you knock on their door before you enter their room.
You'll get over it!
2007-07-05 18:11:04 · answer #10 · answered by LaraSue 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋