Alright, for the past 4 times that I've asked girls out, they weren't interested, we decided to stay friends, and it either worked or it didn't (because there was a one sided attraction and I had to cut off the friendship, even though it was very good it just didn't work)
I'm 19, male. I'm sick of this nonsense. I'm never going to agree to be "friends" with a girl who rejects going out and that's the lesson I had to learn the hard way.
I'm simply going to stop caring about rejections and move on. Instead of working on girls, I'm just going to focus on myself - working out, education (full time univ student), etc... that's it. If there's one person I truly love (besides my family) right now it's just myself. I'm sick and tired of trying to get into a relationship.
Am I doing the right thing?
2007-07-05 17:52:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're on the right track. Persue your happiness, and then when the time comes take time out for romance.
2007-07-05 17:57:48 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. Tracy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to be rude ........ But this is uncommon.
You are actually a very inteligent man, albeit a teenager. I have dated men in their 40's who have mentalities of a 12 year old. Work on yourself, the right woman will come along. It may take time, but it will be well worth it. Women can be ignorant ........ but with time and growing, we eventually get things straight. Keep going to school and ignore everything else.
2007-07-06 01:08:03 · answer #2 · answered by Too many cats 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Concentrate on your studies, health & family. These three things would last you a lifetime. Girls could wait & in time would surely come. Might be that the girl destined for you might bump into you when you are not seeking her.
2007-07-06 00:58:48 · answer #3 · answered by TheSage 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you are doing the right thing by working on you..even me im goin to the gym tomorrow..i got someone i like a lot,and i dunno if ill ever get a chance..all i know is i gotta work on me,and stop callin her so much..and just hit the gym,do things i like..and let her call me if she wants to be in my life..good stuff bro..im feeling inspired! now dont get bitter, just use this experience as a driving force to work on you..love on you,be good to you..and dude, some girl will appreciate it..i know it sounds hokey..but trust me..im almost in my thirties and im in the same boat! hang in there..and do what you gotta do my friend..
2007-07-06 01:03:00 · answer #4 · answered by raul d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you answered your own question. They do say that you always find love when you're not looking! Focus on you, and the rest will fall into place.
2007-07-06 00:59:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to work on liking yourself before you will allow other to like you.
2007-07-06 00:57:15 · answer #6 · answered by Tripp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It looks like you just answered your own question :)
2007-07-06 00:55:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-07-06 00:56:00 · answer #8 · answered by Holly Berry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG YOU ANSWERED YOUR OWN QUESTION.
WORKING ON YOU IS A PERFECT THING TO DO THIS WAY YOU MAKE SURE YOU FIND WHAT IT IS YOU WANT EXACTLY.
2007-07-06 00:58:37 · answer #9 · answered by roughdelicate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me, it seems like when i'm not even thinking about guys thats when i get the most attention from them, i think its the not giving a sh!t attitude................peace
2007-07-06 01:00:07 · answer #10 · answered by somethin bout baby girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋